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I have been a horrible dumpee...what next?


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Seriously, I have done everything wrong. I've sent long rambling emails, dissecting every stupid nuance of our relationship. While I am normally a very stable guy, being dumped turns me into a neurotic mess. I guess this is probably not uncommon. Anyhow, I need to stop being such a wimp and I do not want to walk away from this looking like such an ass. Do I write and apologize for the poor behavior? Do you think this could be received as genuine or is it a weak attempt at saving face? I honestly intend to NEVER send her another one of those stupid emotional emails again. I've done it several times and it makes us both feel like shiat. So foolish. I feel so much better when I don't see her and when I don't have contact with her, but I tell you it nags on me that I have looked like such a freakin fool for the last couple of weeks.

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DO NOT send any more emails. NOT even to apologize.

 

DO NOT call or text

 

GET RID OF: her email, phone number, her screen name

 

UNFRIEND her on every social network you have

 

 

These are keys to getting your manliness and dignity back.

 

Your panic mode makes you do crazy sh**t and act out of character.

 

STOP.

 

STOP.

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