chrissylee Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 I recently found pictures of three of my boyfriend's exs on his computer. I honestly was not snooping. I was using his computer to upload stuff for a school project since his computer is faster than mine and mine licks to lock up and turn itself off. I am not sure how to bring this up to him since this is not something that has ever come up before. Why would someone want a picture of an ex? How do I even bring this up with him since after I found it I admit I did snoop then to see what else was there and he had done a really good job hiding it so it would look like I had to snoop to find it. (which I really didn't he just had them with his porn) The porn is another issue that I am not all to happy with but that is not the purpose of this thread.
PegNosePete Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 People do keep pics of other people, including exes. I don't believe there is anything wrong with that. They are a part of his past just like the holidays he has been on and parties he has been to, we all keep photo memories of our pasts. I have removed the pics of my exes from Picasa and from the actual albums on my PC, but I have them backed up in zip files and on CDs... I guess if my future GF "found" these she might think I was hiding them, but I'm not, I just don't want to see them every day so I put them somewhere rather obscure. So just because you found pics of his ex in an obscure location does not mean he is secretly staring at them whenever you turn your back... Unless there is more to the story than you've said in the original post (eg. are they nekkid pics?), I don't see anything to worry about.
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