Mangomonkey Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 After reading another one of those threads its something i gotta ask. In my opinion nice guys are the guys who put women on pedestals and expect something in return. Does that necessarily make them nice? idk maybe. thats how i see it at least. and the common bad boy. To me they're the people who don't care too much about being validated by a woman and have no need to put a women as a top priority. Thats what i think at least. People often confuse being a jerk as being a woman beater when really the jerks are just the guys who want to be with any women while withdrawing any personal feelings. They do this so they won't be stressed out over a girl or relationships. Nice guys on the other hand will get stressed out. Cause there heart is far too into it. I think thats the real difference. Just guys who care too much and guys who care little. Of course it dont count for everybody. maybe it do i dont know. This is how i see it.
Grobyc Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 (edited) After reading another one of those threads its something i gotta ask. In my opinion nice guys are the guys who put women on pedestals and expect something in return. Does that necessarily make them nice? idk maybe. thats how i see it at least. and the common bad boy. To me they're the people who don't care too much about being validated by a woman and have no need to put a women as a top priority. Thats what i think at least. People often confuse being a jerk as being a woman beater when really the jerks are just the guys who want to be with any women while withdrawing any personal feelings. They do this so they won't be stressed out over a girl or relationships. Nice guys on the other hand will get stressed out. Cause there heart is far too into it. I think thats the real difference. Just guys who care too much and guys who care little. Of course it dont count for everybody. maybe it do i dont know. This is how i see it. I'm going to say something right now: I'm a nice guy, a lot of people think so. i'm easy going, easy to get along with all that. In all of my relationships I have never done this "putting the girl on a pedestal" bull****. I don't like how people categorize nice guys. Because there is NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A NICE GUY. Just don't be a god damn door mat. That whole "girls like jerks" is for immature girls if you ask me. In my past relationships, I was the one who ended them. I've never been on the other side of it. When I didn't like something I addressed it. When it persists, I talked to them again, then I just ended it. There's a big difference between being a Nice Guy, and a door mat. People don't realize that either. "I'm such a nice guy, why doesn't she like me?" <-- You let her walk all over you. Not saying you do, its just the typical case. You're damn right I'm going to be stressed out, because I actually CARE. Being stressed out over relationship complications is normal. It's kinda like if my dad had a stroke, I'm going to be stressed because I care about my father. Its not whether the person is to far into it. There is a point of not caring, and caring to much. I think people need to re-address those who care to much. They might be nice guys, but they let everyone walk all over them. This guy, does not. Also, if you didn't notice. I'm incredibly tired of seeing these threads. Edited December 14, 2010 by Grobyc
Surrealist Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Well apparently, given my readings and understanding of nice guys verses jerks..... Nice guys are absolute ugly desperate doormats, wimps with no backbone and complete losers in dating and in life generally. They are horrible nasty individuals with enormous chips on their shoulders, sociopaths, psychopaths that should be avoided at all costs! They are boring and make for poor pathetic sexual performances! Typically poor, broke and can't get a job or lose that layer of gross looking flab - and gut hanging down over their tiny redundant budgies. Governments around the world urgently need to legislate against 'nice guys' and ban them from ever dating another woman again! Jerks, on the other hand, are strong, sensual, hot looking studs that can perform miracles in bed! They may project the image that they don't care about women, but women are swooning in the very presence of these divine, majestic beings! They are confident, intelligent leaders, rich, powerful, dominant and vigorous - the envy of all men everywhere!
Grobyc Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Well apparently, given my readings and understanding of nice guys verses jerks..... Nice guys are absolute ugly desperate doormats, wimps with no backbone and complete losers in dating and in life generally. They are horrible nasty individuals with enormous chips on their shoulders, sociopaths, psychopaths that should be avoided at all costs! They are boring and make for poor pathetic sexual performances! Typically poor, broke and can't get a job or lose that layer of gross looking flab - and gut hanging down over their tiny redundant budgies. Governments around the world urgently need to legislate against 'nice guys' and ban them from ever dating another woman again! Jerks, on the other hand, are strong, sensual, hot looking studs that can perform miracles in bed! They may project the image that they don't care about women, but women are swooning in the very presence of these divine, majestic beings! They are confident, intelligent leaders, rich, powerful, dominant and vigorous - the envy of all men everywhere! Troll? This sounds like nothing more then a troll.
youngskywalker Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Nice guys are absolute... They are horrible nasty individuals with enormous chips on their shoulders, sociopaths, psychopaths that should be avoided at all costs! Typically poor, broke and can't get a job That just didn't make a whole lot of sense to me.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Well apparently, given my readings and understanding of nice guys verses jerks..... Nice guys are absolute ugly desperate doormats, wimps with no backbone and complete losers in dating and in life generally. They are horrible nasty individuals with enormous chips on their shoulders, sociopaths, psychopaths that should be avoided at all costs! They are boring and make for poor pathetic sexual performances! Typically poor, broke and can't get a job or lose that layer of gross looking flab - and gut hanging down over their tiny redundant budgies. Governments around the world urgently need to legislate against 'nice guys' and ban them from ever dating another woman again! Jerks, on the other hand, are strong, sensual, hot looking studs that can perform miracles in bed! They may project the image that they don't care about women, but women are swooning in the very presence of these divine, majestic beings! They are confident, intelligent leaders, rich, powerful, dominant and vigorous - the envy of all men everywhere! Well then. Spoken like true jerk. (You asked for it, you got it, Toyota.)
Feelin Frisky Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 But seriously, I think the easy differentiation between nice guy and jerk is that a jerk is a social illiterate who tends to only consider his own actions and agenda whereas a nice guy is socially conscious that two parties are involved in an encounter. A "nice guy doormat" is one who goes too far and tends to favor the other person's feelings, actions and agendas at the regular surrender of his own.
D-Lish Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 I don't like how people categorize nice guys. Because there is NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A NICE GUY. Just don't be a god damn door mat. That whole "girls like jerks" is for immature girls if you ask me. There's a big difference between being a Nice Guy, and a door mat. People don't realize that either. "I'm such a nice guy, why doesn't she like me?" <-- You let her walk all over you. Not saying you do, its just the typical case. The above post nails the difference! A nice guy with self respect makes the perfect partner if you ask me.
Seamless74 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 nice guy = no game (another way to say loser in the dating world) jerk guy = game (another way to say cocky winner in the dating world)
Grobyc Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 nice guy = no game (another way to say loser in the dating world) jerk guy = game (another way to say cocky winner in the dating world) Naw bro, s'all wrong. If you read some lame ass book, that's what it would tell you. Which I bet you have. Truth to it all dude, speaking from pure experience of being a genuinely nice guy. I have what you're calling "game". Unlike you, dating isn't a game to me. It never has been. Why people play it like one is beyond me. I find it very immature. Most of my friends don't play it like a game, most are in relationships of the long lasting sort. Dating isn't a game. Don't play it like one.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 When did jerk and "bad boy" (maverick) become one in the same? As far as I know, a jerk is still a f_cking jerk. WTFingF?
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