Author GG67 Posted December 16, 2010 Author Posted December 16, 2010 I read the second email as her saying it's really over and it was sent for her benefit weather you respond or not. She wants to affirm that it's over really over. True, it does sounds like that. I'm not in denial. But, my problem with it is, she already told me this 3 weeks ago, and I have made NO contact. Why is she telling me again? I kind of laid into her a little bit for that.. "Hi. I can't remember if I told you that I don't want you, so I'm telling you again." LOL Was she just throwing in a 'freebie' rejection for good measure? It was totally unsolicited. So, regardless of what she said, she's still obviously pondering a lot of things. Oh, and I told her that I have my first date tonight since we broke up, and that I'm moving on. I asked her to think about what a 'soul mate' really is, and what that means to her. Is a 'soul mate' a real thing, or just an idea? Is a soul mate 'easy and natural', or is a 'soul mate' developed, just like any other relationship.
Mrlonelyone Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 Yeah that soul mate stuff is such utter and complete BS. Relationships take work... no matter how much you love someone you need to make time to see them, talk to them, be with them, work out problems etc. Someone who talks of soulmates, and really believes in them, really does not get it.
Author GG67 Posted December 17, 2010 Author Posted December 17, 2010 if she replies to ur email please let us know. Well.. how should I put this? Let's just say, it did NOT go over well! LOL I knew that it wouldn't. It was brutally honest, and I did 'analyze' her a bit (which is NEVER a good idea). She accused me of 'profiling' her, and said that she would never communicate with me in any way ever again. Yeah, it sucks. But, let's keep in mind, she already broke up with me 3 weeks ago.. so, how are things any different? LOL I spoke my mind. What else can you do? Sometimes, the truth hurts.
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