wildfire7698 Posted March 13, 2004 Posted March 13, 2004 Ok, I want to know how to show my guy that he means alot to me. I want to do something that will just melt his heart. I know guys don't get all wishy washy over sappy things, but I know that doesn't mean they don't like romance. Right guys? Anyway, my guy's last relationship before me was very bad. He was cheated on, so even though he cares alot about me, he's afraid to totally let go and be totally free with his feelings. It's almost like he is afraid to invest them at times because he's afraid what we have will come unglued and he will be hurt again. He's told me this in so many words as well....he also said he keeps trying to tell himself it won't though because he says I am literally the most awesome girl he's ever met. So give me some advice here, what can I do for him that is so special that it will melt that heart of his? I want him to know and feel in his heart that I will always be good to him and be around for as long as he wants me. I think he and I have something great, he's a wonderful guy, I am so lucky to have him in my life. How can I get him to totally let go with his feelings without being apprehensive or scared about it? Please help...
dreamyluv7 Posted March 14, 2004 Posted March 14, 2004 If you are looking to be slighty romantic with your guy try one of these... -take note of his interests and find something you have never done before - make a surprise date and do it For expample my boyfriend loves lord of the rings, and I made him a lord of the rings cake -he loved it Sometimes I will write him funny poems- that he loves. Currently, we have plans to get a couple's message together. (we have been dating for quite awhile. OR even show interest in topics that he is interested in and read up on them, it is a very sweet gesture.
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