mmk1 Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 My GF of about 2 months sent me a text last night right after I left her place that she missed me already. I did not get the chance to respond before she sent me a text 70 minutes later telling me we had to talk. Turn outs she was mad that I hadn't responded within that 70 minute period. WTF? Background - I had stayed at her place 7 out of the last 8 nights, including Saturday night to Sunday morning so we definitely see each other a lot. To me, this is needy and insecure behavior on her part and she needs to grow up (we are both in our 40's!). Your thoughts?
Sarah1977 Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 To me, this is needy and insecure behavior on her part and she needs to grow up (we are both in our 40's!). Your thoughts? I agree. But it's unlikely that she's going to. So you have to ask yourself a question: Is needy insecure behavior a deal breaker for you?
Allisha Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 My GF of about 2 months sent me a text last night right after I left her place that she missed me already. I did not get the chance to respond before she sent me a text 70 minutes later telling me we had to talk. Turn outs she was mad that I hadn't responded within that 70 minute period. WTF? Background - I had stayed at her place 7 out of the last 8 nights, including Saturday night to Sunday morning so we definitely see each other a lot. To me, this is needy and insecure behavior on her part and she needs to grow up (we are both in our 40's!). Your thoughts? You DO need to talk. But not about what she thinks. You need to tell her the bold bit. This relationship seems very unhealthy where she's concerned. It's controlling. It implies she thinks your life has to constantly revolve around her. YOU need to be your own person & have your own life. You've only been with her two months, and this is a big, big red flag. Put your foot down, or this is gonna end up an even bigger problem.
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