Apex101 Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 So been NC for nearly 5 months, not seen or heard a thing from her which has helped massively and i was slowly starting to feel better and move on. Then randomly out of the blue she txts me this.... '' I know you still probably hate me, but i just thought i would let you know i still miss you and think about you everyday x '' She dumped me over txt and had messed me about for a few weeks before hand so i wouldnt say i hate her but i definately was finding it easier to move on as i had a degree of dislike to how she treated me, the one she was supposed to love etc. What does this mean?? she hasnt appologised but suppose by saying that i must hate her she is accepting some responsibilty on her part. she hasnt said she wants me back, just that she is missing me.....i miss her but i dont feel the need to tell her that and i just want to get on with my life! Makes me angry as all the feelings of being loved and having someone care for you have come back, even though i know deep down she treated me with no respect, i still cant help thinking 'what if' and 'maybe shes realised the grass isnt greener' etc. Or is it that she just feeling lonely or that she wants to keep tabs on me?? or just that she felt the need to tell me and hope that i say the same back?? I dont know what goes through this girls head.... Ive not replied BTW and its been 2.5 days
dng Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 Ok. I know this game. 2.5 days, she has already changed her mind and she's probably hoping you won't answer. Don't fall for it.
poorguy Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 Yup my ex started all of that a few months ago...The out of the blue while in NC..I would at that point text back a little. It's a game they play and that's all it is believe me. It's a way to boost their ego somehow. I soon realized that she would text me or email me between about 8am and 6pm everytime. The reason is because after 6pm she was with her boyfriedn and didn't want him to know about it-Point is don't respond!!!!!!!!!!
Author Apex101 Posted December 13, 2010 Author Posted December 13, 2010 She always seemed like the kind of girl who would just move on........was pretty cut throat in certain ways. It just angers me as there was no need for it, it wasnt a question but surely she did it for a response?! or does she just want me to say i dont hate her so she can feel better about herself?? Is it bad that whilst i feel this has put me a step back slightly that i take some pleasure in knowing that she might regret what she did and that i was not the villain like she tried to make me out to be??
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