amythan Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 Hi - I did it. It was not even planned but ... He says he cares about me but i cannot trust him. It was a time where I was happy with him but something was broken when he disappeared. I cannot trust him anymore. I do not think that someone who honestly care about you and want to see you does not make time to reply to your emails. I know how people behave when you are important to them, and it is not like that. I told him everything I think. I was angry and sad but mainly with myself. And he said I am being ridiculous and we need to talk. But i do not think we have nothing to talk about.
alex1960 Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 I think more details would be required to fully understand your situation. Sometimes people disappear for a reason. Sometimes they are jerks.
Author amythan Posted December 13, 2010 Author Posted December 13, 2010 He is not a jerk. Not at all. He likes me and we have a great time together but he wants a casual relationship and I don't. I feel I have to put too much energy in suppressing my feelings, always walking on egg-shells and always playing cool. But i am not cool and i have feelings and i start to feel like a whore. So i guess it is time to walk away. I just hope to do not miss him too much.
alex1960 Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 When my guy friends do that, it's almost always because they are not that interested and think they can do better. I think you did the right thing by voicing your feelings although getting angry is hardly ever productive. I would just calmly tell him this arrangement no longer works for you and leave it at that.
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