fivefive Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 (edited) Hi all, I'm in college right now and I've really made a connection w/ this girl. We pretty much do everything together. We're always hanging out, studying together, going to lunch together, etc. We flirt w/ each other a lot; we tease each other, and we'll even slip in a little joke about having sex once in a while (we've never had sex or kissed) But we're really great friends. We're both very confident and comfortable w/ each other. I've started to develop feelings for her to the point where I can't even focus in class sometimes. But, whenever I'm on my phone she's always asking who I'm texting and stuff like that. She always makes jokes about me flirting w/ other girls and me being a "player". What does she mean when she says and asks these things? Is it jealousy? Also, we recently had a deep conversation about our pasts. We basically told each other how many people we've hooked up with and just SEX in general. She was the one that started the conversation and she referred to it as "girl talk". That concerns me because I don't know if she considers me JUST a friend, like "one of the girls", or something she'd like to establish a relationship with. I haven't had these feelings for a girl in a while. But, I don't know what she wants. Does she want a relationship or just to be friends? Edited December 13, 2010 by fivefive
Bridgey Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 It sounds like she sees you as just a friend, but I could be wrong. The "girl talk" label isn't a good sign though. If you want something more with this girl ask her out on a real date. Make it clear you want her to see you as a potential BF and not "one of the girls". If that isn't what she wants I'm sure she'll let you know upfront. Best of luck to you
Sarah1977 Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 If I had to guess, I'd say she just sees you as a friend.
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