evilmonkey2008 Posted December 11, 2010 Posted December 11, 2010 Hi All, this is really just a thread to say to those who have recently gone through a break up that it really does get better. I dont know if it helps if the ex did the dirty on you, because now i just pity my ex. When my ex after 3 years cheated on me and now left me for this guy, all she did was blame me. At first i took everything she said as gospel and i blamed myself, but then she did this to cover up her guilt. which means she's a coward. The first month was hell, however it does get better, 3 months on and i feel great. I guess im glad the relationship is over, and maybe it was for the best. 3 months on, im eating, sleeping and functioning properly. Enjoying life, enjoying being with mates, and been on a date since. All is good in the world. So for those who have just recently broken up, it does get better, and trust me you will find out it was for the best!!!!!!!!
Fern Posted December 11, 2010 Posted December 11, 2010 I feel the same, evilmonkey - it's 4 months for me. Same story, we were together 6 years, I found out he was cheating with another girl and left him and he's now in a relationship with her. At first I was devastated - couldn't eat, couldn't sleep; but now I can see how utterly s**t the relationship was for me and how much better off I am without him. Maybe it does help you get over it if your ex does something horrible like cheat. Certainly I can't see me ever wanting him back. My ego is still a bit bruised that he'd move on so quickly after everything I did for him, but I feel amazing compared to how I felt in that first 6 weeks to 2 months! Hang in there anyone who's recently split with someone. It does get better!
melenkurion Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 Maybe it does help you get over it if your ex does something horrible like cheat. Certainly I can't see me ever wanting him back. That's an interesting way of looking at it. It might be true, I certainly went to not wanting him back so much quicker than I thought I would. Initially I tried to rationalise his cheating, making excuses for him. But the cheating went on for months, and I can't excuse that. It's been maybe a month now since I stopped wanting him back, I've been broken up ten weeks now. My eating and sleeping are more or less back to normal at last. There's still a very long way to go, but I feel much better than in those first few weeks.
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