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I am not yet in an official LTR. We started communicating a couple months ago, we've been friends since we were in college but he lives in a different country. We decided when things started getting more consistent that we would give this a real try at a relationship so we agreed to meet up at Christmas and see where this leads to.

 

Tonight was the hardest, he was out with friends at a party. Apparently a few girls were interested in him but he was on text with me most of the night. So, one of the girls asked him what's up with the texting and according to him, he didn't reply. This is all related to me by him via intermittent text msgs. After the party, he went home in a taxi and the second he got home, we were on the computer.

 

When he got home he told that a couple girls wanted to know who he was texted and they seemed interested. I asked him if he was interested in any of the girls and he said not really but there was one girl but, there is me so, it wasn't an option he pursued.

 

I am so jealous, upset and it was so difficult trying to hide it but I did. Do you think I had reason to be jealous or am I just going bat**** insane?

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Hmmm I don't like the way he is relaying this information to you. Like stiff shiat if some chicks are showing interest in him, pretty arrogant and inconsiderate to bring this up the way he did, especially the part where he says "I asked him if he was interested in any of the girls and he said not really but there was one girl but, there is me so, it wasn't an option he pursued." Come on, why mention that crap unless you are just seeking a rise. Seriously there are better guys out there who won't play these stupid ****ing games.

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Hmmm I don't like the way he is relaying this information to you. Like stiff shiat if some chicks are showing interest in him, pretty arrogant and inconsiderate to bring this up the way he did, especially the part where he says "I asked him if he was interested in any of the girls and he said not really but there was one girl but, there is me so, it wasn't an option he pursued." Come on, why mention that crap unless you are just seeking a rise. Seriously there are better guys out there who won't play these stupid ****ing games.

 

Well he was quite drunk when he related that information to me. That being said, I don't really want to make any excuses for him. If it happens again then I guess I will take it from there. Right now, I'm writing it off as a one off.

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