sydneysider1978 Posted December 11, 2010 Posted December 11, 2010 Hi All, I've been on around 6 dates with a great guy. I've enjoyed the dates, but to be honest, right from the start the chemistry wasn't there. I hoped it might develop but it hasn't so I don't want to continue. We have never discussed what sort of relationship we have, just dates. I think it would seem strange to formally break things off when it hasn't really been defined but I want to do the right thing in this situation. I guess the options are a text, meeting in person or doing the fade. He's never called me, we've always arranged things by text. I haven't got time to see him over the next week or so with Christmas coming up. What do you think the best thing to do would be?
anned80 Posted December 11, 2010 Posted December 11, 2010 I personally think it's always best to just be upfront and honest. How would you want someone to treat you? I think there is always a way to be tactfully honest. I would personally say, "I've really enjoyed getting to know you but I don't feel a romantic connection. Good luck!" or something like that. I just like that ignoring someone is rude.
Pfiend101 Posted December 11, 2010 Posted December 11, 2010 Whatever you do don't say "I don't feel chemistry" Because its a BS word that means nothing. Tell him however you want "I'm not attracted to you"
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