CopingGal Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Tomorrow I'm going no contact. The first time NC happened to me, I didn't know what in the world was going on. Now I've been through a horrid break up and 19 months later I'm going thru it again, with the same bastard. So, I've got my coping tools at the ready: this forum, the book, It's Called a Break Up Because It's Broken, and all of my activities. I cried and cried. But I'm okay.
AlisaMarie Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 That book is awesome!!!! I hate Dr. Phil... but get Love Smart by him too... it's really great. Also, he's just not that into you ... classic, I've read it 6 times. Keep us posted on your progress, it'll feel good at first, then it gets tough when you're thinking. I am past 2 weeks NC today after a year together.. then 4 months on and off. This is officially the longest I have ever went without talking to him... it hurts like hell... but honestly, being with him and the uncertainties hurt more.
Leandro Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Sounds like you're ready to start healing. NC will help a lot!! Remember we're here for you. Good Luck!!
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