Wings Of Love Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Well, I must say, it's only been a few months since I was last here. And how things have changed! I won't waste time repeating my story, some of you may already know it if you have seen my previous threads. I'm here to say that despite everything, I came through all the pain and heartache my ex caused me and I'm still standing. I'm stronger, I'm happier and it's pretty safe to say I am enjoying every last minute of life right now! Yes, I think about him sometimes. But everytime I'm tempted to contact him and forgive him yet again, I force myself to relive those darkest moments when I was at my lowest. And when I remember that he is the one who put me there, all temptation goes away. Most of the time though, if he happens to cross my mind, I barely remember what he looks like, and the memory fades almost immediately. Christmas is coming up now. And for the first time since he left, I am HAPPY to be single. It would be wonderful to find love again, but these things happen when we least expect it. And I can honestly say that, possibly for the first time in a very long time, I am enjoying my life as much as possible instead of focusing on him or finding someone else. I can't express how truly amazing I feel right now. And so I want you all to know that it honestly does get better. But only if you stay strong. I hit rock bottom, but I'm still here, still fighting. That chapter of my life may be over now, but new ones are just beginning. Do yourselves a favour and cut contact with ex boyfriends or girlfriends. Maybe it will make them realise what they've lost, maybe it won't change anything. But either way, you'll feel so much better if you do. I know it's the last thing you want to hear right now, I hated it when people said it to me, but time really is a great healer. Good luck to all of you.
strangeways Posted December 11, 2010 Posted December 11, 2010 Good for you wings. I read some of your posts and it sounds like a long journey. Well done. Hope I'll be where you are soon.
TheGrimSweeper Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 Good for you wings. I read some of your posts and it sounds like a long journey. Well done. Hope I'll be where you are soon. Same I'm at 2 weeks of NC, and it hasn't gotten any better yet. I know it will in time, but it sucks at this point.
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