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Quick, easy way to get over someone you can't have?

sweetenough

By sweetenough
in Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy

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Hello everyone,

 

Currently I attend college and am 17 years old. There is an intelligent, charming and DROP DEAD GORGEOUS guy, who is 19, that is in one of my classes- we met on a day trip to Paris (for college, unfortunately!) and have been great friends since.

 

The attraction was immediate, the moment I looked at him (I know, cheesy right?!) I knew he was something special. He makes direct eye contact and holds it for longer than usual- and we have great chemistry. Our peers have started to notice the chemistry between us, saying "You can just feel it when you two are together" My friends have also commented on the fact that he acts 'strangely' when I'm around (being louder than usual and generally weird :p)

 

Today we had class- I sat beside him and our legs were touching. Neither of us moved, he then leaned closer and was basically on my shoulder. He then pushed closer (playing about) and then stretched and put his head on mine for a second. Would I be right in thinking this is serious flirting?!

 

Now, back on topic- I'm not sure if he likes me more than a good friend. But I am head over heels for him, and I want to be with him. I can't though- for reasons I won't go into, I can't be with him right now. In actual fact I need to get over him ASAP! I hate the fact that he is so perfect for me, but there is no way I am getting him right now. What is your advice for getting over him?! Thank you :love:

ShatteredReality Established Member

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The only way to get over him is to stop spending time with him. After 3 days of that I'll bet we see a post from HIM on here asking "Had a blooming relationship - she suddenly cut me off cold - what do I do?" or something of the like. Sounds like he's very into you and you are into him. W/out knowing why you can't get involved that's the only advice I have for you. Space. Distance. Time. That's what it takes...time and togetherness makes a relationship grow - time and distance can kill it.

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DuskCrush Established Member

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Get to know him better ---> spend time around him killing the chemistry and vibe...just stop acting all hot and bothered by him and kill the flirtatious vibe...things will cool down, the spell will be broken.

 

ps--is he involved with someone?

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