Trell Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 I got dumped by my ex a few months ago. I'm still in love with her though. Lately she has been coming around a lot more often almost as if she is hoping/trying to bump into me and even hanging around some of my friends. She's also contacted me a couple times though I didn't return her calls/texts. I did make the mistake of trying to chase/romance her after the initial breakup. Now that I have started the ever so popular NC it seems she is running/coming back to me. So my question is how do you know for sure if they really want to get back with you or just want/miss the attention and ego boost.
january2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 You don't. But it's always worth remembering that second chances tend to be the exception rather than the rule. That is, one chance, one woman, one lifetime. You may get back together with her, you may not. But the right now, I think the best thing for you to do is to maintain NC and focus on you, so that you are in a better position to evaluate any future relationship opportunities, whether they are with her or not. Otherwise, this occasional contact with her is like picking at a wound and not letting it heal - you'll be left with a nasty scar.
Jdw_Icequeen Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Don't read into things it will drive you insane. Unless she is coming to you saying she is thinking about a second chance or wants one. Then I definetly wouldn't put to much effort or thought into anything. Like the above poster said get on with you and your life so no matter what happens you can make positive decisions for yourself at the end of the day its what will make you truly happy.
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