crazykindalove Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 ive liked this guy for ages, and then he started sending me signals back, like smiling at me and eyecontact and stuff, and his friends would tease him about me! then i told my friend and found out she liked him aswell. For a couple of days he would talk to both of us. we decided he needed to come clean and so i had a word with him and told him he just had to choose one of us cos it wasnt fair to lead people on. During this talk i ended up telling him i liked him. He later said that he really liked me too, more that my friend and so had decided me. He is a really sweet guy and quite shy, not the player type atall! but he sorta played me and my friend, so do i trust him now? i told him he needed to talk to my friend and let her down gently and he said it was pressure on him but he knws its his fault. also he is popular and i am not atall, the fact that he has told all his friends he likes me even though im not shows he must like me right? and he chose me oever my friend who is popular? so yeah what do you think?? oh and dont worry me and my friend already talked about it, we promised no friendships would be ruined. and before we knew who he liked we said whoever he chooses should go for it cos it would be a waste if none of us did, the friendship is solid! nothing can change that
Ometeotl Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 (edited) Trust no one Kinda have to agree, on a long enough time line, nobody is perfectly trust worthy. I know this is left field, but if you want to trust something, trust in God (if thats a part of your belief structure), almost all people trying their best to fulfill their own lives be it strategically or ethically or a combination of both... people are people. The people that dont act in this fashion, are as rare as life itself. Hope things turn out swell! Edited December 14, 2010 by Ometeotl
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