Sonolumino Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 I might have to see the ex with her new boyfriend tomorrow for my close friend's birthday. I am dreading this very much. I don't want to lose control of myself or make it seem like I care. There will be alcohol involved. How is this accomplished? What should I do if she's there? Pretend like I don't know her or cordially say hi and then walk away?
worlybear Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 DON'T DRINK ANY ALCOHOL. It may make you lose control and its not worth it. Just say a casual "hi" to her and then walk off to talk to others as if it's no big deal-even if you're dying inside. Hold your head high and walk tall. Good luck!:bunny:
fiat500 Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 If you can't avoid going, avoid the alcohol at all costs because you will regret if you do/say something stupid. If you can't avoid her, be polite and brief. Make sure to end things politely and shortly if she starts conversation with you. If you can, make yourself as scarcely seen as possible and leave early or when she's not looking.
iamenough Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 I see my ex all the time, it's difficult but possible to get through the moment without any drama (or trauma). I suggest being polite but not overly friendly. A simple smile, wave or "hello" should be more then efficient. After that, I'd try to avoid being around her as much as possible. (meaning, don't seek out conversation with her, don't try to be 'near' her.. etc, etc). Drink no alcohol!! keep your head high, engage in conversation with other friends and leave early if it gets to be too much. Good luck!
iamenough Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 lol! Should've read the comments before replying... Great minds...
Author Sonolumino Posted December 10, 2010 Author Posted December 10, 2010 Thanks guys, I appreciate all the advice. We'll see how it goes. I'm just gonna go into it with a "**** it" attitude.
paleblue Posted December 11, 2010 Posted December 11, 2010 Thanks guys, I appreciate all the advice. We'll see how it goes. I'm just gonna go into it with a "**** it" attitude. F both of them. if you accidently bump into her and she says hi, just say hi back with a smile and walk away. then that way you look like the bigger person.
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