twistedsoul Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 day two on nc after being told "she" will make the decision if we are still an item. not heard anything not had a text, phone in my hand that many times because i need putting out of my misery, that i want to see what her decision is. i only wanted to see if she ws okay after a real bad weekend at her home and apparently im needy.
pureinheart Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 day two on nc after being told "she" will make the decision if we are still an item. not heard anything not had a text, phone in my hand that many times because i need putting out of my misery, that i want to see what her decision is. i only wanted to see if she ws okay after a real bad weekend at her home and apparently im needy. Are you the OM? Could you tell us more on your situation? ((((hugs)))) and welcome:)
Author twistedsoul Posted December 10, 2010 Author Posted December 10, 2010 ohhhh sorry yes im the om and the mw husband is away for a while she intiated the flirting and i went with it. it has been a month of telling me we shall do this and we shall do that. didnt hear from her for two 3 days absolutley nothing, so when i did meet i asked why ..she blew up saying i was needy ect ect . as i left i said im sorry i was just worried and wanted to know you were okay. and are we okay ....she said ...ill make that decision if i want to see you again, youll have to wait. so i have waited a few days now, nothing at all...and im in a bit of a bad place.
whichwayisup Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Why not make the decision yourself? This woman is married and she's dicking you around, treating you poorly.. To her, you're just the OM, someone to fill in the needs that she isn't getting at home with her husband, on her time frame, her terms. It's an affair. To you, it seems you've invested too many feelings and thoughts into something that is more than likely never going to go anywhere BUT an affair. Ask yourself why you're settling to be second fiddle?
Fieldsofgold Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 ohhhh sorry yes im the om and the mw husband is away for a while she intiated the flirting and i went with it. it has been a month of telling me we shall do this and we shall do that. didnt hear from her for two 3 days absolutley nothing, so when i did meet i asked why ..she blew up saying i was needy ect ect . as i left i said im sorry i was just worried and wanted to know you were okay. and are we okay ....she said ...ill make that decision if i want to see you again, youll have to wait. so i have waited a few days now, nothing at all...and im in a bit of a bad place. Please don't let this woman abuse you, just so she can have an affair. You are certainly worth more than that! And she is certainly abusing you.
siuys Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Twisted, you're living this on HER terms. What happened to your own needs and dignity? Affairs are never good, but if there is not even respect then please run away as fast as you can. She IS definitely dicking you around. I don't know how long your A's been going on, but sooner you leave, the better you will be, and the quicker you will heal.
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