suparman22 Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 (edited) So, First off let me say that I am flat out one of the worst people ever when it comes to reading girls... I flat out don't understand them. Anyhow let me give you some background info on me. I am a college sophomore and I treat girls extremely well and am the "nice guy" but I still manage to hook up with a fair amount of girls even though I don't really try all that hard to do so. I am highly motivated and in great shape as I am in ROTC and will be commissioning as an Army officer when I graduate. Anyhow there is this girl that for the rest of this I will refer to T. So T and I met the first week of school last year at our advisor meeting and for the first semester hung out and had a LOT of fun. At first I thought of her as a friend but then slowly in my mind I really started wanting to date her. Around this time one of my buddies and I were playing nazi zombies and he made an off the cusp remark that he thought that she liked me. Well that weekend we had a swap with her sorority and we started dancing and ended hooking up on the dance floor. That night after the swap in my drunken stupidity I told her that I was interested in her. Pretty much all I can remember was her telling me to tell her that the next day when I was sober. So the next day I called her up and asked her to go on a walk with me. I talked to her and she basically told me that she didn't want to date at the time but wanted to remain friends. We then put it behind ourselves and continued to be really good friends for the rest of the year. Now skip to this year, we came back this year and have been really good friends but haven't hung out nearly as much as we did last year. There is this guy that she seems to be talking to but a buddy in who is in his frat told me that the guy just chases girls never really gets anywhere with them. Anyhow bout a month ago every time she started seeing me she told me that we needed to start hanging out more. Well at our next swap we were hanging out and then later that night we went to a dance party downtown and at the party hooked up. We caught a ride back to campus and she came back to my room and we had sex for like 2-3 hours. The next day was thanksgiving break so we didn't really get a chance to talk but we were texting quite a bit. She texted me first asking if I had her keys because she lost them and then we started texting more. I asked her to grab lunch with me but she said she couldn't because she had a pre-existing engagement. I responded with something like "I hope things won't be awkward between us" her response to me was something like "Why would it be awkward! and I promise im not avoiding you!" She then started cracking jokes about the situation, she sent me a text like "btw.... thanks for the hickeys my gamgam is going to love them at thanksgiving dinner.." and when I apologized she said.. "don't worry about it its not a big deal.... Besides its kinda my fault I encouraged it" Since we have gotten back I haven't seen her much so I haven't really talked to her face to face but every time I send her a text she shoots me one right back quickly albeit the texts are short. Also a buddy of mine was playing never have I ever with her at a party and started giving her **** about having had sex with me and she essentially told him that I was amazing in bed. So, given all this what do you guys think? Is she interested? or was this just a drunk hookup? Sorry for the essay!!! And if this is jarbled my bad its exam week and my brain is kind of fried. Thank You Suparman22 Edited December 10, 2010 by suparman22
welikeincrowds Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Who cares? You want to ask her out again, right?
Author suparman22 Posted December 10, 2010 Author Posted December 10, 2010 I guess I am scared of losing the friendship and if I ask her out she might get weirded out. I don't know.... Like I said I am horrible at this interpersonal stuff.
utterer of lies Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 I guess I am scared of losing the friendship and if I ask her out she might get weirded out. I don't know.... Like I said I am horrible at this interpersonal stuff. But you want more of her than friendship anyway, so her just being a friend won't make you happy either.
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