adrianlo Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 (edited) I am lost. I need help. my wife is a foreigner and she has deserted me. I was married in August 2007 because she had a baby at that time. Later she had an abortion but we still proceeded with the marriage as i was blinded by love. During this time, we quarelled alot mostly is because many guys sms her provocative messages. She even went to an extend of signing up an account with a dating site and show interests to others. She said she was merely looking to chat with other people as she is lonely as a housewife. She even told me not to live with my parents as she felt uneasy and claimed that in her country everyone is independent and live on their own. I am a chinese, therefore living with parents is common in our culture. Three months later she decided to go back to her home country to visit her parents in which she said she would come back in three weeks time. However she did not. She told me she feels more comfortable in her hometown. I asked her to come back many times, but she would not agree unless i am separated with my parents. I did what she told and rented a room for a month. The latter, she said i do not have enough money to look after her. I then decided to give up on her and waited 3 years to file for separation. Three Years have passed. i managed to find her on facebook where i saw photos of her with her new boyfriend. I emailed her and asked for a divorce and file for separation based on Three years. She agreed but to my surprize 3 hours later she asked me for compensation for abandoning her and let her work alone. How unreasonable can she get. Tell me what to do. What should i file for. Separation, desertion, unreasonable behavior or adultery. I know man is always at the losing end when it comes to divorce. I do not want to pay her maintenance, its just unfair. We do not have any kids and assets. Please note that my parents and i did not ill treat her. I sponsored for her english course and provide necessary lodgings. Edited December 10, 2010 by adrianlo
imagine Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 She is a taker. How can she possibly show that you abandoned her? She can fight the case on her money. Please keep record of her infidelities, possibly this can help your case. Record everything before you go to court. I doubt that you will make any money out of her.
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