bslchump Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 I have been doing really well for the last few days. I've felt like there is hope for the future and that hey, we probably wouldn't have been very good together anyway. I walked past her on her computer and she had her IM window maximized and was talking to the new guy. I immediately felt all my progress drain out of me. It feels like I've been punched in the gut. Ugh. This is why I need to move out.
Gt.ooh Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Don't beat yourself up about it. Best thing to do is get busy...and stay busy. Don't overthink anything to the point where it begins to hurt you. I found that out about 2 months into my break-up. AND do something immediately after the break-up that would make YOU happy.
january2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 I agree that you need to move out asap. Otherwise, every time you interact with her, hear about her, etc., you're going to feel another punch in the gut.
Author bslchump Posted December 11, 2010 Author Posted December 11, 2010 The thing that makes it worse is I don't WANT to move out. I feel like it's sealing the deal and saying "ITS OVER" permanently. I know it is over, but making that step is hard to think about. Also I think I'd miss her so damn much.
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