gerib38 Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 My bf broke up with me in October ... out of the blue aftertelling me 2 days before he loved me ... then said he could not give me what i wanted .. i was devastaed and did all the stupid texting taking all the blame .. blaming him etc for a couple weeks ... then i told him he was right and that the breakup was best for both of us ... about 6 days later he called... i didnt answer the phone ... then on thanksgiving i sent a text saying sorry i missed your call... he said Happy thanksgiving .. any way to make a long story short we texted a bit and i saw him sat night ... he asked if he could see me again i said sure ... he said for me to call him ... but i havent that was 5 days ago ... its not that i dont want to talk to him ... but he asked that we take it one day at a time .. im all for that .. but honestly after the breakup im not sure what to say to him ... i mean it used to be .. i love u ... i miss u ... thinking about you ,,, that kinda stuff ... i need some help in 1. should i call or text him or leave it to him... 2 if i do text what do i say... thought of saying ... thinking about u hope u are staying warm... but i kinda feel like if he really wants this he will contact me ... what do u all think??? suggestions??? i feel alot stronger even though i did not get to do the 6 mth nc thing before we started talking again ... but with support of friends and making up my mind i do feel much better about this breakup ... not saying i wouldnt like to see if we can make it work ... just want to handle it right
homebrew Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 Go and read some of the other threads before you do anything! No offense but you have no idea how best to proceed. Do a lot more reading before doing anything. My advice: 1. No Contact 2. Only be friends with them in the context of a romantic relationship (Very Important) 3. Read a lot of the threads on this site. It will help you GREATLY! Answer questions you may have. 4. Focus on You
Author gerib38 Posted December 9, 2010 Author Posted December 9, 2010 I am focusing on me... i like so many other just want to do it right if there is a possibility of a reconciliation not only do i want to do it right i want to do it with full confidence in myself that its the right thing to do... and to go about it so that it will be a better relationship this time around .. .. and thanks for your info i will read read read:p
homebrew Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 I am focusing on me... i like so many other just want to do it right if there is a possibility of a reconciliation not only do i want to do it right i want to do it with full confidence in myself that its the right thing to do... and to go about it so that it will be a better relationship this time around .. .. and thanks for your info i will read read read:p Great Job! You have a very positive outlook and attitude. You are well on your way to healing!
Author gerib38 Posted December 10, 2010 Author Posted December 10, 2010 I have been feeling stronger .. and i feel if he really wants this he will make the effort if not i have to accept that its over its been hard not texting him ... even though he asked me to ... im sure hes wondering whats going on with me ... cuz believe me i blew his phone up in the past with texts...lol... even i am suprised i havent done it... im going out tonight with frineds and i will NOT TEXT even though its killing me...LOL.. im a woman of many words so staying quiet is quite a feat for me
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