Try again or move on

[benB]

My ex and I have been broken up since August, we dated for four years we are both 22 and go to the same college. She recently got back in contact with me and expressed that she still loved me and made a mistake in breaking my heart. She wants to get back together but there are too many issues in the way of that. She spent so much time bad mouthing me and acting like I was the bad guy so now her friends and family pretty much hate me and would not support us.

 

Should I try to make this work or just move on. I was doing fine with the break up before she got back into contact with me but now I have gone back to day 1. I love her and want to be with her and definitely don't want to lose her but she is hesitant and not committing to anything.

[poorguy]

Man that is a good question. I have the same situation with my ex. She bad mouthed me to all of her friends and like made them not like me. This was in June. So now same thing here she's sorry and all of that. I believe her but the question is what about all the crap she said to everyone. It's like they would have to go back on what they said. That's the reason I always keep my mouth shut after a breakup because things can change-like they have with you and me. Well if I were you I would talk to her about all the things she said and how she's going to go about rectifying that because she has to do something about it

[SimonSerenade]

Who care's what anybody else thinks, Do what makes you happy, You matter and she matters and that's all that matters, People's opinions and views change all the time and given time there family and friends will change there minds, Just be nice and friendly to them and face them head on, Give them nothing to hold against you, You have an opportunity to be happy, Don't let anybody else come between that, Anybody on this site would kill for the opportunity your being handed, After all you've been through emotionally, Surely your strong enough to overcome this bridge, Heck the bridge has been rebuilt, Cross it

[Jdw_Icequeen]

I completley agree with simon.. When it comes to you and YOUR relationship.. Don't worry about anyone else because at the end of the day its not them you love and its not them that you have to be with!