ccnaboy2000 Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 Well, as a recap of my situation, girl and I brokeup 1 1/2 weeks ago. We never fought, argued or anything. I believe it went down like this, I lost my job and my apartment, and I was down on myself and stopped showing her the appreciation I used to show cuz I was depressed. She said she wanted to be single and we need to get **** done in life and get things back in order. I went NC immediately. It drove her crazy, she would bomb my phone tellin me she misses and loves me, etc etc. She kept escalating trying to get into contact. She asked me to breakfast, I declined, then she said she wanted to take me to dinner. I declined and she kept asking why, I told her it was difficult to me. Thats when she said "why do you think I'm trying to see you so bad. I need to talk!" Well I decided to give it a shot, be nice, play it cool. Picked her up, she acted like she was on coke, she would talk a million miles a second! Which is unusual for her, but I figured she was just nervous. We went to dinner and had a good time, things progressed slow. She wanted to spend the night. So we got a hotel. We talked a lot. Had amazing sex, she hadn't slept with anyone else, which I can believe she was pretty sore. We talked a lot that night, she was crying telling me how not a day goes by where she doesnt think about us. She told me the only reason she broke up with me was to motivate me to get stuff done in my life faster, and that she's seen it in me. She said she missed me so much and wanted to keep seeing me but I kept ignoring her calls and she would cry so much over the decision she made. And that she wants to take things slow. So looks like things are pretty much back in order. We are just taking things slow until I get my life back in order. I think it went well!
kateandlucy Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 Well, as a recap of my situation, girl and I brokeup 1 1/2 weeks ago. We never fought, argued or anything. I believe it went down like this, I lost my job and my apartment, and I was down on myself and stopped showing her the appreciation I used to show cuz I was depressed. She said she wanted to be single and we need to get **** done in life and get things back in order. I went NC immediately. It drove her crazy, she would bomb my phone tellin me she misses and loves me, etc etc. She kept escalating trying to get into contact. She asked me to breakfast, I declined, then she said she wanted to take me to dinner. I declined and she kept asking why, I told her it was difficult to me. Thats when she said "why do you think I'm trying to see you so bad. I need to talk!" Well I decided to give it a shot, be nice, play it cool. Picked her up, she acted like she was on coke, she would talk a million miles a second! Which is unusual for her, but I figured she was just nervous. We went to dinner and had a good time, things progressed slow. She wanted to spend the night. So we got a hotel. We talked a lot. Had amazing sex, she hadn't slept with anyone else, which I can believe she was pretty sore. We talked a lot that night, she was crying telling me how not a day goes by where she doesnt think about us. She told me the only reason she broke up with me was to motivate me to get stuff done in my life faster, and that she's seen it in me. She said she missed me so much and wanted to keep seeing me but I kept ignoring her calls and she would cry so much over the decision she made. And that she wants to take things slow. So looks like things are pretty much back in order. We are just taking things slow until I get my life back in order. I think it went well! Huh. Pretty risky.
Jdw_Icequeen Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 I'm sorry people like that bug me.. People want to be bitterr because they didn't get there second chance well let them.. I'm happy for you!! I really hope it works out you probably could have taken things a bit slower lol.. But hey whatever works for you!! Again I'm very happy for you and truly hope you guys can stick IT OUT!! Enjoy!!
kateandlucy Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 I'm sorry people like that bug me.. People want to be bitterr because they didn't get there second chance well let them.. I'm happy for you!! I really hope it works out you probably could have taken things a bit slower lol.. But hey whatever works for you!! Again I'm very happy for you and truly hope you guys can stick IT OUT!! Enjoy!! Excuse me, I'm sorry I wasn't more clear. I was just noting that it was pretty risky of HER to have done that to you. I don't think it shows very good judgement on her part. I'll add that I actually do believe in giving people a second chance. Go for it slow - good luck! Thanks.
Jdw_Icequeen Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Excuse me, I'm sorry I wasn't more clear. I was just noting that it was pretty risky of HER to have done that to you. I don't think it shows very good judgement on her part. I'll add that I actually do believe in giving people a second chance. Go for it slow - good luck! Thanks. I'm sorry I didn't mean to come off harsh but I am getting use to alot of people being negative when it comes to second chances. I guess I don't know how it would be risky for her because she broke it off with him. But thank you for clearing that up for me..
fiat500 Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Cheers to you, ccna. :):):):):):):):) And congratulations.
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