Hopeful30 Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 If a woman hits a man, nothing happens. If a man hits a woman, he could put her in the hospital. Think about it. It doesn't mean its okay for women to hit men, but if a man hits back, he looks way worse. Why? Because he can inflict more damage, and he knows it. What is a girl punch gonna do to a boyfriend? (unless she is a bodybuilder or is freakishly larger than he is)
Author waynebrady Posted December 9, 2010 Author Posted December 9, 2010 If a woman hits a man, nothing happens. If a man hits a woman, he could put her in the hospital. Think about it. If the woman started it, it's her own damn fault. I got no sympathy or respect for women who think it's ok to hit men and not expect anything back, they are scum and deserve to get hit back. I'm not a big guy, When I was in high school this big strong fella harrassed me infront of my friends and I thought **** it and hit him with a right to the face. Guess what happened? I got beaten up... badly. But it was my fault. I started it even though I knew that guy would beat me up. I just had to much pride to stand there and take his crap infront of my friends so I did what I had to do. Afterwards I didn't bitch at all about him beating up on a smaller guy, why would I? I started it so I got what I deserved. Do you get what I'm trying to say? It does not matter if women are smaller and don't make much damage. I don't care if the woman only leaves a bruise and the man breaks her jaw in return. If she started it, it's her own fault.
Green Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 Women hitting men means a lot of things to me. I've been hit by women but never anything seriouse. My friends on the other hands have stories of frying pans and knives ect. The thing is if you are a big man say 200lbs and your gf is small say under 120... and she push's you.. yes you could trip and die or get badly hurt... but most likely it will just piss you off or make you laugh and if it came down to it you could easily defend yourself your only worry being that her version of the story would turn you into the bad guy. Really grabbing and trying to restrain a kicking biting scratching girl is scary, and its not like you can just punch her lights out because you know her version of the story will turn you into some rapist attacker... But when a man is violent with a woman... even just a little violent it really is a lot worse because men are usualy a lot stronger then the women they date. Women are also more fragile and if of child bearing years could be pregnant. I think both are bad. I think both are joked about. But joking about women hitting men or being cool with it is a lot more common. I feel men are in a much better position to defend or save themselves from an abusive woman. For the most part other then a gun, poison, or sneak knife stabing my gf could never even hurt me. If she punched me in the face other then her ring it wouldn't even hurt me. She'd be more likely to fall over if she pushed me then me. So MEN hitting WOMEN bigger problem. I do feel more sorry for a woman in an abusive situation. But in the end Women and Men who date abusive people need to save themselves and stop expecting the world or the person to change.
Yer_Blues Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 It's not OK. I'm nobody to hit. I won't hit first, but I will hit last. And the violence will be over, I can assure that. I don't know about the litigation though. Good rhyme, solid flow
harmfulsweetz Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 Green makes an excellent point about men being in a better position to defend themselves. It's not right on either side. Although, I'll hold my hands up, I did slap my ex once, and I was very wrong for it.
Author waynebrady Posted December 9, 2010 Author Posted December 9, 2010 Green makes an excellent point about men being in a better position to defend themselves. It's not right on either side. Although, I'll hold my hands up, I did slap my ex once, and I was very wrong for it. Thing is, if we do defend ourselves we go to jail for it. So IDK about that.
SmileFace Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 Remember the " Rule of Thumb" .... ok that was a joke. Anyway I don't think it is ok for a womn to hit a man, even if she can do damage or not. If someone hits, I hope they expect to be hit back/ I think both are equally bad. No one should be getting hit. Women or men. Women have it bad mentally and physically when it comes to abuse. That doesn't mean men have it any less. Can you imagine how an Average male will feel mentally to have to admit to others he is getting physically abused by is wife. My word.
Green Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 Thing is, if we do defend ourselves we go to jail for it. So IDK about that. if a woman slaps you or punchs you and you lose your temper and beat the **** out of her you do deserve to go to jail. (heck the woman may even be hoping or something like this) If a woman is attacking you full force punches, scratchs bites... just grab a hand full of her hair and you win with out actualy causing any damage to her... just don't make her fall. If a bed or couch was nearby and you were sure you could throw her into it without hurting her you could just do that and chances also are as a man you can run a lot faster... just make sure she doesn't get in her car and run you over as you jog down the street. You could probably grab her arms but that could cause her to fall over or get seriouse bruising around the arms so best to just grab the hair or throw her on something soft like a bed or couch and run. For the most part there are warning signs for both sex before anything serious does happen. Of course a woman who seems loving could easily just poison you or stabe you in the back... and a man could just get drunk or crazy one day and attack... bottom line men are scarier when it comes to violence when compared to most women
carhill Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 bottom line men are scarier when it comes to violence when compared to most women Perhaps, but I'm reminded of the local biochemist who now resides up the road in prison for killing her husband by cooking him in a barrel of mixed acids. Here's a thread their daughter started on a murder victims support forum shortly after he was murdered. It's a strange world out there. I don't take anything for granted when it comes to women anymore.
fishtaco Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 If a woman hits a man, nothing happens. If a man hits a woman, he could put her in the hospital. Think about it. Yeah, so skinny small guys should be allowed to hit people too. And midgets. And kids. And really old people. What about people sick with the flu? Cuz I was like really sick last week, with high fever and all, I could punch someone with all my strength and it wouldn't do anything. I should have been allowed to hit people.
Distant78 Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Dude... don't want to embarrass you but she was being tongue-in-cheek. Dude you're not embarrassing nobody.
Distant78 Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Sense of humor needs a tune-up. Sure it does.
spice4life Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Alot of people say "You should never hit a woman no matter what", and in movies/tv shows when women hit men its being made fun of and people laugh... It's like it's ok for women to hit men but as soon as the man hits back the man is a horrible wife beating loser and a coward. IMO women who hit men are just as much cowards because most men won't hit back no matter what, the man is defenseless basicly and you can hit without having to worry about getting it back... It's just as bad as when the roles are reveresed. I totally agree. A woman hitting a man is absolutely not acceptable. There are exceptions, like being mugged, beat or raped but that's it. A woman who hits a man is just as much of a coward as a man hitting a woman. It's a very mean, manipulative and classless thing to do....period!
spice4life Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 I had an ex sock me in the eye while I was laying on a beach chair with my eyes closed. You may have seen some of my posts about this "borderline personality disorder" pain in the @ss I was once involved with. I took her to the beach and suggested that we ride some waves in. We jumped a little early and a wave pounded us pretty good and rolled us around. I didn't think too much of it but she wanted to get out of the water. I told her that I just got used to the water and I wanted to stay in a bit longer. She seemed OK with it and got out. A few minutes later I hear her screaming at me on the edge of the water. I go to check out what's what and she starts accusing me of trying to "drown her". Yeah, like I take someone I'm not married to and am trying to build a relationship with to the beach to drown her for no reason. Anyway, I just growled at her" "you know? You're sick!" I laid down on the beach chair and closed my eyes to get some sun and POW! The bitch hit me with her fist in my eye socket. I couldn't effen believe it. Guys, there are crazy, crazy, crazy females out there. I hope no one has to go through stuff like that. It surely didn't make me feel better to slap her back and end the day with my heart in my mouth and a black eye for just trying to have a good time at the beach with my supposed "love interest". Wow! I agree with the other poster...what a nut ball.
Hopeful30 Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 (edited) If the woman started it, it's her own damn fault. I got no sympathy or respect for women who think it's ok to hit men and not expect anything back, they are scum and deserve to get hit back. I'm not a big guy, When I was in high school this big strong fella harrassed me infront of my friends and I thought **** it and hit him with a right to the face. Guess what happened? I got beaten up... badly. But it was my fault. I started it even though I knew that guy would beat me up. I just had to much pride to stand there and take his crap infront of my friends so I did what I had to do. Afterwards I didn't bitch at all about him beating up on a smaller guy, why would I? I started it so I got what I deserved. Do you get what I'm trying to say? It does not matter if women are smaller and don't make much damage. I don't care if the woman only leaves a bruise and the man breaks her jaw in return. If she started it, it's her own fault. That's harsh. Just dump the b*tch, you don't have to ruin her face. If any man hits a woman back, he is a coward NOT because he hit her back, but because he didn't have enough BALLS to leave her in the first place. If it bothers you THAT much, you can always leave. Same goes to women. If he beats the sh*t out of you, or treats you like crap, then LEAVE. I never understood people who complained and were so unhappy in their relationships. Just end it. The complaining is getting annoying. You may love them but love isn't enough. Most of us should know that by now. Edited December 10, 2010 by Hopeful30
utterer of lies Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 uol, I truly hope to goodness you are never victim of a woman wielding a knife, stiletto shoes or throwing every hard, heavy object she can lay her hands on at you, slapping at your head, throwing your dinner plate all over you, or kicking you. It's painful, distressing, humiliating and demoralising. to dismiss it as 'not such a big deal' and 'nothing to freak out about' is both ignorant and thoughtless. You obviously have no idea. None. Unless you also think the same of men hitting women.... I would never hit a woman, but an ex-gf of mine tried bashing my head in with a metal pipe. It was neither humiliating or demoralising, she just wasn't as quick-witted as I am and couldn't help herself. I took away her weapon and she calmed down. As I said, not a big deal.
Author waynebrady Posted December 10, 2010 Author Posted December 10, 2010 if a woman slaps you or punchs you and you lose your temper and beat the **** out of her you do deserve to go to jail. (heck the woman may even be hoping or something like this) If a woman is attacking you full force punches, scratchs bites... just grab a hand full of her hair and you win with out actualy causing any damage to her... just don't make her fall. If a bed or couch was nearby and you were sure you could throw her into it without hurting her you could just do that and chances also are as a man you can run a lot faster... just make sure she doesn't get in her car and run you over as you jog down the street. You could probably grab her arms but that could cause her to fall over or get seriouse bruising around the arms so best to just grab the hair or throw her on something soft like a bed or couch and run. For the most part there are warning signs for both sex before anything serious does happen. Of course a woman who seems loving could easily just poison you or stabe you in the back... and a man could just get drunk or crazy one day and attack... bottom line men are scarier when it comes to violence when compared to most women Offcourse that's not what I mean. If a woman hits a man and then the man pushes her away or touches her in any way, he will go to jail. Because police will believe the womans story no matter what.
USCGAviator Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 I only have one thing to say Is waynebrady gonna have to choke a bitch?
Author waynebrady Posted December 10, 2010 Author Posted December 10, 2010 That's harsh. Just dump the b*tch, you don't have to ruin her face. If any man hits a woman back, he is a coward NOT because he hit her back, but because he didn't have enough BALLS to leave her in the first place. If it bothers you THAT much, you can always leave. Same goes to women. If he beats the sh*t out of you, or treats you like crap, then LEAVE. I never understood people who complained and were so unhappy in their relationships. Just end it. The complaining is getting annoying. You may love them but love isn't enough. Most of us should know that by now. I'm not talking specificly about relationships I'm talking about all situations where women hit or abuse men. And btw if a woman hits a man she is a coward because she is hitting somebody and expecting that she will not get it back, that is a cowardly move. Yeah, so skinny small guys should be allowed to hit people too. And midgets. And kids. And really old people. What about people sick with the flu? Cuz I was like really sick last week, with high fever and all, I could punch someone with all my strength and it wouldn't do anything. I should have been allowed to hit people. If we are gonna go by Hopeful30's logic then yes, skinny guys, midgets, kids, old people, sick guys should be allowed to hit other men without having to get anything back because they don't inflict much damage She cant' have it both ways, a woman can hit a man and the man can't hit back, but if a midget or a 90 year old who probably does even less damage than a woman the man can hit back because they are guys. If a skinny small guy started a fight with much larger and stronger guy and got beaten up, no woman would have anything against that. But if it's a woman then it's unfair and the man is a horrible person If a woman starts a fight with a man she got only herself to blame if she gets hurt, you can't start a fight with somebody and then blame the guy if you get beaten up. And not all women are weak and small too, some women can inflict good damage on a man if the man doesn't hit back.
Crusoe Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 I would never hit a woman, but an ex-gf of mine tried bashing my head in with a metal pipe. It was neither humiliating or demoralising, she just wasn't as quick-witted as I am and couldn't help herself. I took away her weapon and she calmed down. As I said, not a big deal. Yes, but everyone is different. My ex once stuck a pair of scissors in me. Similar your yourself, I took the weapon away from her, sat her down and stroked her hair until she calmed down, then went and got stitched up. To me no big deal, but I grew up in the gutter and violence was just a normal part of life back then. To someone else an experience like that is a shock, and any type of sustained violence will, over time, beat any man down. A mate of mine from years back. Ex para, big man, jack the lad, hard as nails, party animal and great sportsman. He got his girl preganant, married her and settled down to family life. We lost contact. 12 years later we bumped into each other again and was he was a different man. Shy, nervous, no confidence, no self esteem. He mumbled, fidgeted, wouldn't look anyone in the eye, rarely joined us in the bar for food or drinks and always waited until the locker room was empty before he went for a shower or to change his clothes. Oneday, messing around, I gave him a big slap on the back, he hit the ground like a ton of bricks, put his hands over his head and curled up into a ball. He got back up straight away but it was obvious something wasn't right. We put a few drinks inside of him and got him to fess up. He was smothered head to foot in small jet black bruises, many were open wounds. Stiletto imprints. He would have started off like you or I Utterer. "No problem, I'm a man, I can handle that", but it goes on and on and on, wears a fella down, eventually he's jumping at his own shadow.
flying Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Yes, but everyone is different. My ex once stuck a pair of scissors in me. Similar your yourself, I took the weapon away from her, sat her down and stroked her hair until she calmed down, then went and got stitched up. To me no big deal, but I grew up in the gutter and violence was just a normal part of life back then. To someone else an experience like that is a shock, and any type of sustained violence will, over time, beat any man down. A mate of mine from years back. Ex para, big man, jack the lad, hard as nails, party animal and great sportsman. He got his girl preganant, married her and settled down to family life. We lost contact. 12 years later we bumped into each other again and was he was a different man. Shy, nervous, no confidence, no self esteem. He mumbled, fidgeted, wouldn't look anyone in the eye, rarely joined us in the bar for food or drinks and always waited until the locker room was empty before he went for a shower or to change his clothes. Oneday, messing around, I gave him a big slap on the back, he hit the ground like a ton of bricks, put his hands over his head and curled up into a ball. He got back up straight away but it was obvious something wasn't right. We put a few drinks inside of him and got him to fess up. He was smothered head to foot in small jet black bruises, many were open wounds. Stiletto imprints. He would have started off like you or I Utterer. "No problem, I'm a man, I can handle that", but it goes on and on and on, wears a fella down, eventually he's jumping at his own shadow. Wow! Ugh, that's awful. Not to derail the thread but...what happened? Did he stay with her?
Crusoe Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Wow! Ugh, that's awful. Not to derail the thread but...what happened? Did he stay with her? Yup, he curled up into a ball and took his beatings for another 5 years. Always in slience so his daughter never knew and never once laid a finger on his wife. When his daughter left home he also left. Married to a good woman now and the old rogue is getting his confidence back.
mr.dream merchant Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 My ex hit me. I'm a pretty big guy, so I laughed it off, and helped her calm down. Then I proceeded to have very hot sex with her, it was some of the best sex we had. The girl I'm seeing now hit me in the chest while we were having sex, but it was out of pain, I went too deep :<. Again, we laughed it off, and proceeded with the matter at hand lol.
flying Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 Yup, he curled up into a ball and took his beatings for another 5 years. Always in slience so his daughter never knew and never once laid a finger on his wife. When his daughter left home he also left. Married to a good woman now and the old rogue is getting his confidence back. I'm glad to hear he finally escaped. And I hope all the wounds - internal and external - are healing. How terrible. Hope the daughter's OK too.
Woggle Posted December 10, 2010 Posted December 10, 2010 In my first marriage I had dishes thrown at me, was almost scalded with boiling water plus I was hit all the time. She also snuck up behind me and held a knife to my throat threatening to slice it. To top it off she shot at me after the divorce. Despite all I was labeled the abuser in court even though I never once hit her.
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