manolo Posted March 13, 2004 Posted March 13, 2004 Me and my girlfriend broke up two months ago. Since then she has been calling me every once in a while to see how I'm doing and all that. Well, every time she has called I'm hanging out with friends and there are girls in the background. Anyway, she gets mad at me, calls me a jerk and hangs up the phone. What I don't get is that she is already seeing someone else and tells me all the things that he is and I'm not. In other words, I think she is trying to compare him to me and I find that wrong because you shouldn't compare your ex with the person your currently seeing. I'm one person(a person in which she fell in love with) and he is another person(just someone on the rebound who is just trying to hook up). So, my question is-Why does my ex get mad at me for hanging out with other girls and then tells me all the great things about this new guy she is seeing. I don't understand girls. If she is so happy with this new guy, why does she even call me. I don't get it. She was the one that broke up with me. If any girls can help me out on this issue I would greatly appreciate it.
dreamyluv7 Posted March 13, 2004 Posted March 13, 2004 Maybe she just wants you back, and doesn't want to say or doesn't recogize her own feelings in this situation. It seems that she may be trying to get you jealous to see how you would react, by bragging about this new guy, to see if you she find out your true feelings for her. And that hanging up the phone thing when you are with other girls is pretty clear that she is jealous and maybe doens't like the thought of you getting over her so quickly. She seems very confusing to me of her intentions.
opentonewadvice Posted March 13, 2004 Posted March 13, 2004 Trust me she just likes attention, especially when she feels she has yours, and she likes the ideal of thinking if she would call or somewhow come around again would you still be attracted or interested in her all over again.She seems to be somewhat of a control freak it seems and enjoys getting her way. If i were you i would not pay her any attention just continue doing your own thing and stay away from her, why feed her ego. Whatever you rdoing right now in your private life is none of her concern, unless you still have feelings for her and want to share your buisness with her then thats a different story , otherwise she needs to be past history.
Author manolo Posted March 14, 2004 Author Posted March 14, 2004 Friday night she called my cell phone and only let it ring once. I know she wants to talk to me but I know there is someone else telling her different. Why is she making my life so difficult. I didn't call her back Friday and I am not going to. I know it was not an accident because we haven't talked in a week and so I'm not currently on her speed dial. She would of had to either dial my number or go to the phone book and look up my name to call. She just confuses me. I wish she would grow up and stop playing games. Why do girls drive us nuts But, we need them in our lives.
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