Lucky555 Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 I was giving the guy I'm seeing a chance. This is the second time I have been invited to his place at night then he will say he has to be at work in the morning. It sounds like a booty call to me. It's not like he is saying let's get together and play a game nope he has one thing on his mind to get laid. What Happened to dating? I don't know I'm very turned off by him asking me to go over at night when really where is the day dates? Doesn't this sound like it's to his convinence? For instance I could see him during the day today and leave at night for my other obligation. I know he is at work but I know he can take a weekend day off. Otherwise I'm just mad right now. The other day he went shopping why didn't he invite me? It's like he and I could be doing couples types of things to build the relationship and we are not.
Jynxx Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 My advice is you should tell him what you wrote here. Don't assume because things seem logical and intuitive to you that they are to him. Have you told him how you feel about not spending day time together? Have you told him you would like to do stuff like shopping with him? Personally I see things like grocery shopping as an unenjoyable necessary evil, so it wasn't something I thought about when wanting to spend time with a girl. I changed my opinion when one of my previous girlfriends said she actually liked doing it with me. And are you sure he wants a relationship in the first place? Have you talked about it?
Author Lucky555 Posted December 9, 2010 Author Posted December 9, 2010 ya jynxx your right. Mainly I need to tell him straight, i wont be a booty call. this is what it seems like. At night, spontaneously inviting me over. What happened to dates? I don't like what is happening. He obviously didn't listen to me when i said we need to spend time together or he would have suggested we spend the day going some place or doing something together as a date. I will have to talk with him i suppose. It just makes me mad because i don't think he is even serious about me and he is inviting me over i know for booty. Communication. However, i contacted him via text today and no response he can't tell me he is too busy to answer a text when i know he has his phone on him.
Recommended Posts