ithinkilikehim Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 I met this guy last monday and we went out on friday. I really thought we hit it off. He kept saying how much fun he was having and how he wished he had met me earlier and how we should get together over the weekend. ( We werent able to because I had previous plans). At the end of the night when he dropped me off he had mentioned how he wished we got to do other things such as mini golf or bowling or something else but we werent able to because of an injury had had just recieved. He also said Ill see you later and Ill call you. Well I havent heard from him and I want to see him this weekend. Should I wait for his call or should I call? I keep replaying this in my head on what I should do and Im driving myslef crazy. I dont want to call and him turn me down like I got the wrong impression. But I do want to call incase he was waiting for me. What would you guys do? Thank you
Jynxx Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 He appears to be into you and letting you know it. Did you ignore him when he was saying how fun you were, played hard to get, acted a bit cold? Are you sure he realises you're into him too? If he does, he'll call you, give it a couple of days. Otherwise you should call him and let him know how much you enjoyed hanging out with him.
Author ithinkilikehim Posted December 9, 2010 Author Posted December 9, 2010 He appears to be into you and letting you know it. Did you ignore him when he was saying how fun you were, played hard to get, acted a bit cold? Are you sure he realises you're into him too? If he does, he'll call you, give it a couple of days. Otherwise you should call him and let him know how much you enjoyed hanging out with him. I dont think I acted hard to get or cold. I kept saying how much fun I was having and that we shoud do it again. On friday it will be a week since we went out. Should I just cave and call him tomorrow?
D-Lish Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 Any guy that is genuinely interested will not wait around to call you, or wait for you to call them!! If he meant what he said on your first meeting, he woud have reached out and asked you out again. The bottom line is that he said he wanted to take you out again, you told him you'd like to- and he hasn't reached out. Maybe he's flakey, maybe he is muti-dating- but the reasons shouldn't matter, the fact is he hasn't reached out and that should tell you all you need to know about his level of interest.
Author ithinkilikehim Posted December 9, 2010 Author Posted December 9, 2010 Any guy that is genuinely interested will not wait around to call you, or wait for you to call them!! If he meant what he said on your first meeting, he woud have reached out and asked you out again. The bottom line is that he said he wanted to take you out again, you told him you'd like to- and he hasn't reached out. Maybe he's flakey, maybe he is muti-dating- but the reasons shouldn't matter, the fact is he hasn't reached out and that should tell you all you need to know about his level of interest. Ive always thought the same thing, that if they were interested they would call. I honestly believed everything he said. He called 3 times during the week to make sure we were still on. I appreciate your honesty.
DuskCrush Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 DO not call him. Go for a week...go out with friends...flirt with someone else. Take your mind off him. More than likely he will call you.
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