meda1 Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 8 years ago i moved to scotland with my parents and basically i met a girl, didn't take long before we where with each other and i had an immense feeling of love towards her, she had a lovely little girl and we where perfect for each other, we rarely argued never had a bad word to say about each other,, it was to good to be true! but after a year we got our own place on the other side of town from her parents who not long after got a place a street away from us without telling us until moving day, suddenly they came down hard on me and her, threatening this and that, i had her father round looking for me quite a few times saying i stole his daughter and her mother even stole my gfs keys let herself into our house and packed my clothes in bin bags and threw my phone in the bin outside,, i actually had to phone the police i thought we where getting burgled. and trust me that was just the tip of the iceberg!! i begged my gf to move back to ireland with me to get away from it all that we would have all the support we would ever need to start again, it was around that time her mother started to get really nasty to me, threatening to tell the police i was hitting her daughter and faking epileptic fits in order to keep her daughter at her beck and call and feel sorry for her which worked because my gf said she couldn't leave her in that state, it was then when i was at my lowest point and backed by my mother and father i left with my gfs number and the promise of returning when she realised what her psycho parents where doing to her life. we called each other for a few weeks then nothing! her phone wouldn't ring, but a couple of weeks ago i tracked her down online, i was overjoyed to see her face and couldn't wait to chat to her and find out what she had been up to with herself, a few hours chatting and it was like we had never left each other, but then she dropped a bomb, "i love you i want you back" thing is i do still love her, over the 6 or seven years we where apart i often talked about her and though of her and her child wishing i would have stuck it out, with her mother throwing my phone out i lost my contacts in scotland and my only link to her was my scrap of paper with her number and she told me her mother took her phone and destroyed her sim card,(only finding this out now), and also hearing how her life went downhill after i left. anyways now her mother lives a good few counties away and my ex wants to leave who she is with now and move to ireland to me but is scared to get up and go, she says she is unhappy where she is in life at the Minuit and i believe her and know i could help, im scared of her backing out again and just don't know how to tell her the longer she puts things of the harder it will get! im really a good person and i know she is too so can someone please help me with this, id be forever greatfull what ever advise i get.....thanks
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