Yes my ex is mental , and guys need to man the **** up

[Capital P]

I been on here a while now, mostly because i like giving people help and notice the SAME patterns. Im pretty useless at my own advice though unfortunately

 

So my ex broke up with me. 2 months passed. Some ****ing wasteman met her out. Told her i lied about my age ( I did ) and that i was sleeping with people behind her back ( i wasnt ) This guy is a policeman, and dont get me started on them. He lived with me for 6 months , i paid all his bills n then he moved out , left me with the bills and did that.

 

So anyway. I call her up. We chat for an hour. She tells me he told her this. She says she has been with someone , it was crap. We get off the phone

 

She then says she wants sex. We dirty text, she disappears for 2 weeks

I get a text saying sorry she hasnt replied, uni work, she understands if i dont want to talk to her again. She will always love me.

I ignored this and carried on no contact.

 

Last weekend i was out with a bunch of people who she knows. There were posts on their facebook from girls saying how hot i was.

One of MY friends who was out has a pic of me n him in the profile photo.

 

So , last night SHE adds HIM and starts talking to him on FB chat

 

He brings me up. She said thats not why she added him n he seems cool an does acting , like she does. He says he feels uncomfortable. She says our relationship was volitile. Not to worry about it she has no feelings for me and does not care what i am upto, she just wanted to talk because he is an actor.

 

Inbetween the lst 4 weeks ANOTHER wasteman told her i was cheating on her, and he is also supposed to b my friend. When guys get a sniff of pussy they will do anything.

 

so my friend on FB chat gave her the riot act. he said it was disrespectful, he doesnt like being used , its too much of a coincidence that im in his profile photo and she added him and basically gave it to her, like a real friend does.

 

So **** knows what she was after. She did seem quite calm and wasnt slagging me off or seemingly wanting to talk about me.

 

The thing that annoys me the most is that guys will say that stuff to girls just to get in their knickers. And break ups really show you who your friends are.

 

The guy who was my flat mate is now her facebook friend, and i cant smash his face in because hes a pig.

 

Im leaving the country in 3 weeks , this thing is done. I just wish i knew what she was upto

[durkadurka]

Seriously? I thought when you follow the rules and maintain your dignity you always get your ex back?

 

Hm.

[Capital P]

If you looked at it properly dickhead then you will see that she broke up with me about 9 months ago, and i kept to my guns and we ended up going out with each other again

This time, when she dangled the last carrot i chose to ignore it and move on.

And if you had listened to what i said instead of being a jerkoff i said this happens over years. I have girls that have contacted me after 5 years, thats if you leave a good impression.

 

But yea, thanks for the advice. Im glad you listen to what i say , have a great outlook and bother putting constructive comments on for people, instead of just writing about yourself all the time

What annoys me most about your self centred commment is i go out of my way to reply to people on here, and id rather people returned that favor rather acting like bitches

Edited December 8, 2010 by Capital P

[cerridwen]

Seriously? I thought when you follow the rules and maintain your dignity you always get your ex back?

 

Hm.

 

Is this really necessary?

It's so juvenile.

[Capital P]

Exactly.

If you dont like the discussion i orientated then change your outlook, its probably whats stopping anyone being with you in the first place.

 

I spend a lot of my time on here giving advice, it would be nice if people could return the favor, without acting like an ass

[Capital P]

Not one piece of advice for me, apart from some jackass disagreeing with my last post. And thats after me spending most days on here replying to other peoples problems

 

Thats the last time im posting on here n the last time im goin over this issue.

 

Time to move on

[dk.bnz.chi]

hey Cap,why r u a p..y now? don't leave

[dk.bnz.chi]

i hope u didn't act the same way with that ex of yours.

[dk.bnz.chi]

seems like durkaburka's reply affects u more than ur exes..

are u a man or a mouse?

[bl22]

You need to forget about her, shes trouble clearly...an attention seeker who will make **** up to make herself feel better. As for this other guy, karma will get him 1 day, you cant do stuff like that to someone who helped you out and not pay for it 1 day. Forget them both they arent worth your time or effort.

[WTRanger]

You want to know what she's up to? She's playing games with you. She knows you are in complete poon hound mode with your tongue all the way on the ground. You'll follow her scent any where she goes just to get a whiff of some ex sex. Seriously, how did the ex sex plan go from a few months ago? She knows you are obsessed with having sex with her, so she'll talk to all of your friends just to piss you off. She knows your huge Ego can't take it. And you are falling for it hook, line, and sinker.

 

If your friend that read her the riot act on FB was a real friend, he wouldn't have accepted her friend request. He wouldn't have responded to her initial chat. He'd have deleted her, not just told her some things then is in vulture mode until you leave so he can swoop down and go after her.

 

You are leaving the country soon, so it shouldn't matter what she's doing and who she has been doing it with.

[Art_Critic]

Told her i lied about my age ( I did )

 

The thing that annoys me the most is that guys will say that stuff to girls just to get in their knickers. And break ups really show you who your friends are.

 

Well.. you did lie to her to get in her knickers as well

 

She sounds like she is just playing the field and not settling for one guy right now..

With you going out of the country that kinda puts an end for anything to happen.. even if you tried to keep a LDR with her it won't work because she wants to play the field..

 

Honestly.. it sounds like she is a bit immature..

Time for you to move to another girl more suited to you..

[Capital P]

You want to know what she's up to? She's playing games with you. She knows you are in complete poon hound mode with your tongue all the way on the ground. You'll follow her scent any where she goes just to get a whiff of some ex sex. Seriously, how did the ex sex plan go from a few months ago? She knows you are obsessed with having sex with her, so she'll talk to all of your friends just to piss you off. She knows your huge Ego can't take it. And you are falling for it hook, line, and sinker.

 

If your friend that read her the riot act on FB was a real friend, he wouldn't have accepted her friend request. He wouldn't have responded to her initial chat. He'd have deleted her, not just told her some things then is in vulture mode until you leave so he can swoop down and go after her.

 

You are leaving the country soon, so it shouldn't matter what she's doing and who she has been doing it with.

 

 

Haha, poon hound, that is awesome lol. And you are right lol.

I did actually tell my friend to accept her because i wanted to know what she was upto. Was probably the wrong thing to do, but im glad he got to tell her where to go.

 

Yea, the sex thing. She did reply after 2 weeks saying he wanted to meet up when her work was out of the way, and that she will always love me, yadayadayada. And i have never replied to that, so at least i won the second leg of the sex trail.

That was like a month ago. And in that time according to her she has not lost all feelings n couldnt care less lol.

TBH im just ****ing angry at that guy. He did all that to try and **** an ex, and she believes him, and they are now fb friends.

I want to tell her shes a ****ing dick for believing him. I could meet up with her if i wanted to and clear the air. She would do it.

BUT, im going to keep my anger to myself and not do anything.

[Banega100]

You'll find some one better dude. You always do. You only have this mentality right now because there is no one else in the picture that you like. Just keep pressing on. It'l get better in time.

[Capital P]

I think its more anger at weak dudes trying to get their leg over on other peoples gash

Its all good man, all i know is she gets nothing outta me. I may vent it on here, but as far as she knows im done

Got 5 girls out tonight. Unfortunately my town is possibly the lowest place in the world for attractive women

All the better im movin to the US in 3 weeks, BOOOOM!

[dk.bnz.chi]

you shouldn't be angry at your ex but feel sorry for her being so naive

[Capital P]

Guys, one more question.

One of my best friends is her mutual friends on facebook. Hes a good guy n doesnt really like her anyway.

Im taking this guy abroad with me for 6 months to live the dream with me. Going to different cities, doing promo, meeting girls, being a rockstar.

At some point pics n statuses are going to be going up, and she will be able to keep track of what im upto.

While at the start i was quite happy to have pics on there of me n other girls, i just want the whole thing gone now and dont want her to even consider that im doing it on purpose, or have any insight into my life

 

Shall i get him to take her off his friends or just keep it there and let her see how well im doing

[fiat500]

You should just let him keep her as a friend for now. This is your chance for vindication.

[Capital P]

Yea, i dont want it though tbh. I dont want anything from her including my vindication.

And i think on some levels seeing me constantly with other girls, being successful just makes her used to that and will make it easier for her to get over it

I really just want to disappear

[fiat500]

Then do what you have to do. Disappear with dignity and humbleness. Never to be heard from again. I think if I was in her situation and my ex went out like that, I would have a lot of respect for him and miss him greatly.

[Capital P]

Yea. Unfortunately she is an absolute psycho and apparently believes i disappeared to go have sex with even more women than was apparently cheating on her with lol and just thinks im over it because i never cared.

 

And she resents me moving on without chasing, and doesnt particularly want me to be happy lol

Picked a RIGHT diamond there lol.

[dk.bnz.chi]

hey Cap,are you a good looking,confident,secure guy who's able to pick up girls?

why does it bother you so much what she does, thinks or who she talks to?

i guess you still want the psycho b...h back but you're denying it by trying to hate her,or maybe the sex was really really extraordinary

[Capital P]

The sex was good. My town is **** for women and she was Miss "my town"

I was thinking the other day that if i took her personality and stuck it on an uglier woman, i wouldnt even want to speak to her.

Iv stayed no contact through her texting me saying she still wanted to meet up for sex, and that will always love me. Through me finding out my friend told her i was ****ing around, and through her talking to my friend on facebook, iv resisted ay urges to text

 

If i could leave tomorrow i would. Unfortunately i got 5 weeks in this ****hole of a town with my head going a hundred miles an hour

[Capital P]

I need to man up myself!!

Right im off to get some women, there must be some in this town someplace!!