Its.not.too.late Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 Hey once again Loveshackers. Instead of using this site for a venting purpose about my relationship, I come and seek honest, true, pure advice. My relationship of nearly two years recently ended unexpectedly. I love this girl to the point where I was engaged to her. Now she is lost, confused, misguided and most likely pressured against me. All she seems to care and is "happy" about is her money, flirting, no drama, freedom and the guy she left me for, Joe. I am torn because I know this isn't her. Should I wait and hope for the one I love or move on and let go of everything?
andrew-bkk Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 Hey once again Loveshackers. Instead of using this site for a venting purpose about my relationship, I come and seek honest, true, pure advice. My relationship of nearly two years recently ended unexpectedly. I love this girl to the point where I was engaged to her. Now she is lost, confused, misguided and most likely pressured against me. All she seems to care and is "happy" about is her money, flirting, no drama, freedom and the guy she left me for, Joe. I am torn because I know this isn't her. Should I wait and hope for the one I love or move on and let go of everything? Let it go dude. And wait. Get good with yourself. And wait. Then get better with yourself. And wait. After that, get even better with yourself. And wait. And she if she doesn't change or come back, it really won't matter. From now on dude, it's all about you.
mgene15 Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 don't wait for nobody, and that's real. live your life, DO U!
Leandro Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 yea, don't wait on her man. Just focus on you and move on.
dng Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 Hey bro, I can feel your pain. It'll get better with time. When someone actually makes the decision to leave you and to break it off, they are usually quite advanced in their thinking process. That's why it seems out of the blue to you. Do yourself a favor and start your grieving process now. Down the road, when she realizes that Joe is a cocky douche, that's when her real heartbreak will start, and then you'll be lightyears ahead of her. Even if she stopped things with him now, would you take her back? With her head telling her one thing, her heart another? Once you open that door to view other people as potentials, there's no going back. Come on come on come on, get thru it!
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