How can I meet guys/dates....I am attractive and outgoing...

[EmmaDilemma]

Ok, so I am 27 year old, successful, attractive, tall, blonde, outgoing, bright smile female. Why am I still single and why do I never seem to have guys come up and ask me out?

 

Or better yet, how can I start meeting guys?

 

I work in the Mines, which means that I work 2 weeks away, and when I get back for the week, I am pretty busy. But I am also incredibly lonely. I have acheived so much in my life, and I am miserable. I just want someone to love me for who I am.

 

My past couple of relationships have been based on sex, and it has been a emotional rollercoaster for me. I feel sometimes my looks means I don't get to meet any nice guys, only players...

 

I have tried internet dating, but that is not for me. I only ever seem to come across guys who want to talk dirty over the net.

 

Can anyone give me some advice on how to get out there and find some real love?

[musemaj11]

Try asking guys out or at least initiate approaching them.

 

If you dont want to do that then just keep on doing what you are doing.

 

But remember,

 

"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results"

-Einstein

[Mad Max]

Try asking guys out or at least initiate approaching them.

 

If you dont want to do that then just keep on doing what you are doing.

 

But remember,

 

"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results"

-Einstein

 

 

I love that quote.

 

But seriously, if what you're doing isn't working, then something needs to change. Ask a guy out, meet someone through a friend, place a personal ad in the paper. Do anything. What you're doing now isn't working. Having sexual relationships isn't working.

[Surrealist]

Well you need to leave the mines, get a job in the federal public service, move to Canberra and alas! You can meet me!! I mean, what more could you want!

[shy_guy]

Get out of the mines... move to sydney or melbourne

 

(Sorry, canberra sucks )