somedude81 Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 Lonely? Don't want to date? Don't want sex? But want some company in your life? Friendzone a guy today! Get everything you want! No risk guarantee! Warning: Friendzoned guy may develop feelings, friendzoning may cause frequent unwanted phone calls, text messages and professions of love
SmileFace Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 Lonely? Don't want to date? Don't want sex? But want some company in your life? Friendzone a guy today! Get everything you want! No risk guarantee! ALL THIS FOR 19.99 shipping and handling not included Call in the next five minutes and get a nice guy for FREE! Warning: Friendzoned guy may develop feelings, friendzoning may cause frequent unwanted phone calls, text messages and professions of love That is mean. It isn't nice to hurt people just to fulll your own lonely void. I know you weren't actually serious but believe me - it has been an idea in my head. I have guys who I can contact but I won't since it isn't far to them.
welikeincrowds Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 Never tried speed dating and now never will. Wow this video reminded me why I absolutely hate dating... Really? I've always wanted to try "Cougar Night."
SunsetRed Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 Panda Girl, I think you are handling everything is a very healthy way. You are being honest and are not trying to cover up or block your feelings by numbing yourself with another person. I tried online dating as a way to move on and get over my ex, and I've decided to stop the whole dating thing as I don't want to use anyone to assist me in my getting my stuff together process. I'm very independent and can go just about anywhere by myself, so I've been taking myself out on dates. You are doing the right thing by taking care of you until the rt man comes into your life again. Lol and thanks Stargazer for the Mayer song suggestion. I don't respect him as a person, but I like him as an entertainer, so I'm going to check into the song,
Author pandagirl Posted February 5, 2011 Author Posted February 5, 2011 Kind of funny that this thread got resurrected. It's been two months since I wrote the original post, and I'm in a slightly different head-space. I actually (if it happens!) have a date tomorrow, the first one since my breakup. I'm not doing it because I'm lonely though, it just seems like the right step for me to take at this point in my healing process. I don't think I'm going to be able to fully move on, until I start taking the baby steps to start dating again, so this is what I'm doing now. It feels natural and not forced. That being said, I still very mindful that I'm not fully over my ex. I still have my moments when I tear up from missing him or thinking about him, but it's a different kind of hurt now. He doesn't complete me, nor does his absence make me feel empty. I still deeply care about him and miss him, and I allow myself to feel that because I think those feelings are normal after loving someone very much. I think it was really important for me to stay 100% single in these last five months since my breakup. It was a rollercoaster of emotions, but being by myself has let me truly heal without involving someone else.
mo mo Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 But perhaps you all will enjoy watching other people date: http://tinyurl.com/4vxrfha And watch the men squirm. Haaa I know one of the people that runs that company. She's in that video. They didn't do a very good job at promoting those events. I get emails about them all the time (cuz like I said, I know one of the promoters), but I never actually did a speed dating event. Any curiosity I had about it is gone after I saw that. It isn't for me.
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