snuggles302 Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 Depends on the situation. It is good manners to ask but if the person is brave enough they should kiss their partner without permission unless they hesitate maybe its not right or not the right time. If it feels right kiss if not don't!
Thierro Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 I would never kiss a woman without asking first. I'm not gonna risk getting sued for assault, sexual harrasment or attempted rape. I play it safe Whenever I kiss a girl I change the tone of my voice before engaging the kiss. I usually use my hands before that too; touching her skin, caressing through her hair. I take it very slowly and in a playful passionate fashion. Touching her cheek with mine, whispering stuff in her ear, moving my lips close to her neck. She will have enough time to decide if she is going to embrace my lips. Don’t dive in like it’s an all you can eat buffet. Take it slowly. No need to worry.
BobSacamento Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 You shouldn't have to ask, you should just know. If you don't know then don't do it. If you can't tell the difference, go join the priesthood.
Knittress Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 When I was younger, terrified of male sexuality, and regarded every kiss as some sort of sacred covenant, than yeah - I would've flipped out without verbal permission beforehand. Now, I'm much more fun.
reservoirdog1 Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 I would never kiss a woman without asking first. I'm not gonna risk getting sued for assault, sexual harrasment or attempted rape. I play it safe There's a world of difference between kissing a girl without specifically asking, and suffering those consequences. Besides, those things could happen whether you try to kiss the woman or not. Some people are simply psycho hose beasts. Live a little bit, wayne.
Author tlind Posted December 9, 2010 Author Posted December 9, 2010 You shouldn't have to ask, you should just know. If you don't know then don't do it. If you can't tell the difference, go join the priesthood. Haha, if only it were that black and white.
elaina Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 (edited) Is it alright to ask a woman at the end of the date if you can kiss her, or do you just go for it if the mood seems to call for it? Seems like a very obvious answer to most on here, but those of us (me) just getting our feet wet in the world of dating, is this okay or not...please, honest answers and opinions. I just don't want to seem like some kind of creeper or perv if I go in for a kiss. Should you ever ask? To me, the eyes are the window to the soul, and body language means more than audible words. When I first kissed the man I'm interested in, he just sorta stated with his eyes and body (by leaning close) and lips of course... was so natural I could have pulled away but I didn't... I answered with my own eyes and body and lips I don't really think one needs to always ask things with words. Edited December 9, 2010 by elaina
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