Sign of attraction through text or just being friendly?

[studiomuffin]

Right i won't try to drag it on but i want to go into depth.

 

First off, i like this girl, we are good friends and only known each other for about 2-3 weeks. We can make conversation easily and are very similar in personality, work life and ideas of fun.

 

She does have guys go after her but for some reason shes been chasing me heavily and i've tried to send a signs back that i like her as well and i'm waiting for thursday for all this to unfold.

How i met her, one of my friends was trying to sleep with her who was a bit of a player. He ended up making out with her briefly when we were all drunk briefly in a club but got rejected coming home with her and they were apparently on and off for about a week. I saw her out recently on last friday and we have a bit of fun flirting back and forth but i didn't try anything because my friend was getting jealous though she was showing flirting abit with physical contact on the dance floor but she threw me off when i saw her get with two other guys during that night in which i ignored it and left her on the dance floor. She was drunk at the time and when i confronted her about one of them, she said she didn't regret it because he was cute.

 

Now my friend wasn't too worried since he was getting with her friend that same night and he broke it off with her saturday morning, and she didn't reply back.

 

Now i saw her on saturday night and we had a chat inside then met up outside again of the club. We had another chat and having a nice conversation and i gave her my number if she was up for meeting up next week. She was sober and was slightly flirtatious with me.

 

Now since then, shes been texting me allot and i'm replied to back. We had a chat for 4 hours on sunday through text and 2 hours yesterday and another 2 hours today. During sunday she invited me out for drinks on thursday since both our day off work. Now i'm basing some of the attraction through the physical flirting i got on friday and saturday and the signs through text i've gotten.

 

From text, shes always texts me first, She invited me out for drinks, but just recently told me a friend of hers is coming aswell so three of us. She also uses "lol" "haha" "hehe" and always "xx" plus smilies at the end of her texts. Shes also very quick to texting me back and replies back to all of my texts to her. It takes me roughly 5-15 minutes to text back because i like to think carefully on what to say to her while it takes her 2-5 minutes and her texts and usually longer than mine and asking a fair few questions on sunday.

 

I'm trying to get her to chase me a bit but from tonight i've left hints i'm chasing her aswell to send a signal. My only concern is she seems easy when shes had a few drinks and its hard to tell if its flirting or being friendly. I'm also worried she might be trying to use me to get my friend jealous but theres been no strong signs of that.

 

If its just being friendly then its not that bad, i will move on and try the next girl but i do like her and i won't mind going out with her. Shes above my average and i love her personality.

Edited December 8, 2010 by studiomuffin

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