Asher90 Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 I am 41 weeks pregnant and actually overdue. My bf and i have always babied his niece becuz of the nature of her mother who is a terrible mom. However i fear we have created a monster....His niece is five years old & last night his niece just put herself in our bed. like she LEFT Her moms bed and came to ours. Then My bf moved her came downstairs we come upstairs and MY SONS CRIBSHEETS ARE ON THE FLOOR AND THE LITTLE GIRL IS SLEEPING ON THEM. I was upset for many reasons mostly because i had just cleaned these sheets for my son and they are for him only. Secondly I don' tlike her in my bed or anything because of the fact that no matter how many times i treat her for lice it keeps coming back becuz of her skanky mom. I got onto my bf to do something and he yelled at me. He yells at me whenever i complain about the little girl in my bed. My bf always defends every lil thing she does. Even when she smacked my stomach. She is 5 yrs old & has no business in my bed or in my sons things. I am moving out in a month and honestly if my bf is goin to choose his niece over me all the time im ready to walk away. Advice plz
Green Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 another single mother is being created. Why did you have a baby with a boyfriend you are about ready to walk away from? (is it even his baby) If I was your boyfriend I A) wouldn't have a baby with a woman unless I was married and B) Wouldn't let some little child niece or what ever run my house, mess my stuff up, and hit my pregnant wife... but your bf obviously doesn't care and you sound about ready to become a single mother. Good luck
Author Asher90 Posted December 8, 2010 Author Posted December 8, 2010 another single mother is being created. Why did you have a baby with a boyfriend you are about ready to walk away from? (is it even his baby) If I was your boyfriend I A) wouldn't have a baby with a woman unless I was married and B) Wouldn't let some little child niece or what ever run my house, mess my stuff up, and hit my pregnant wife... but your bf obviously doesn't care and you sound about ready to become a single mother. Good luck First of all... you don't have to be so rude so please don't be. I have done nothing to you. & Secondly i love this man very much but the way he is acting just started here recently for about the past two weeks. So i have not always been ready to walk away from him.
SmileFace Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 My word, 41 weeks!! Please don't stress yourself and congrats. Hoping for a healthy baby. All the luck
Green Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 First of all... you don't have to be so rude so please don't be. I have done nothing to you. & Secondly i love this man very much but the way he is acting just started here recently for about the past two weeks. So i have not always been ready to walk away from him. I don't think now is the time for you to be deciding to walk away from him you have a baby to think about now. (im guessing this is your first) I havn't been rude to you either as you know what I'm saying is all valid concern.
Mad Max Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 Who is your doctor? A family friend is a doctor and he says he and everyone else he knows would enduce labor at 38 weeks. It's extremely dangerous to go 10 months.
MJ2 Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 Who is your doctor? A family friend is a doctor and he says he and everyone else he knows would enduce labor at 38 weeks. It's extremely dangerous to go 10 months. Not true. Doctors do not like to enduce unless the labor process is n the 1st stage. ESP for first time pregnancies. Normally, they don't let you go past 42 weeks. My sister ended up having a csection when she hit 15 days past due date. She and the baby were totally healthy.
Author Asher90 Posted December 8, 2010 Author Posted December 8, 2010 Not true. Doctors do not like to enduce unless the labor process is n the 1st stage. ESP for first time pregnancies. Normally, they don't let you go past 42 weeks. My sister ended up having a csection when she hit 15 days past due date. She and the baby were totally healthy. Ya my doctor didnt say anything bout bein induced either
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 Any chance of NOT living with your niece and her mom? Probably not, I would guess, or you would not be ... you really are going to need some firm boundaries in place in order to have a good start with your new baby. Try to ask your boyfriend to sit down with you and have a serious talk with good communication. Your niece is likely to act out more, because she is going to feel supplanted by the new little cousin.
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