The average women has many more dating options then then the average Man

[waynebrady]

This is actualy the one way I will agree that the average woman has it easier. Seriously whats with women an labeling us a rapist/creeps ect. A rapist is a rapist... not a guy who said someting you don't agree with or find perverse.

 

 

 

A rapist is a rapist. They look and act like the rest of us sometimes... but its not what you say or do.

 

I shouldn't have to put a disclaimer after "make her lick your balls" saying "but only if she consensualy agrees" no duh... seriously if some guy is a rapist his thing might be sticking knives in girls vaginas or it might be just plain old fashioned misionary... what the F has it got to do with me.

 

This is how the average man has it harder, it seems to be ok for a select group of women to label men CREEP or "sounds like a rapist" geez... seriously if I heard some guy calling a bunch of girls SLUTS or Bichs it would be offensive. But it seems perfectly ok these days for women to talk about men in public and call them CREEPS because of something they said... ect.

 

Seriously I could care less if you think I sound like a rapist because I like to fck and when I do I like to really enjoy myself. And if I say something like "enjoy pulling her panites off" I don't need you to construe that as "against her will" same with "make her suck your balls" seriously if some one on here said "make him take out the trash" would we all be up in arms and think you were doing it under threat of force no.... but since its with sex you think I need to sensor myself or sound like a rapist.

 

I aboslutley agree with everything in this post. I wouldn't be surprised of most guys have been called creeps, they just don't know it because women always say it behind your back for the most trivial reasons like being to quiet or too reserved or the opposite or being a bit kinky or whatever... Soon enough women will call men creeps simply for wanting sex. Maybe I have been called a creep too sometime by a woman, infact I'm shure of it.

[waynebrady]

You dont have to even say anyhting wrong these days just being an ugly Man can get you called creepy if you approach women

 

If a man approaches a woman and the woman doesn't find him attractive = creep

 

Pretty much

[that girl]

Green-

 

I think you've probably put a lot of effort into being confident around women.

 

But, you need to think about what you say and not just complain that people took you the wrong way.

 

I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt, but you also have to realize there are some messed up guys out there and some of them probably read this forum.

 

So not only does some of what you wrote creep some women out, it could make a bad guy think that his behavior is okay. That doesn't make you responsible for anything a bad guy does, but you should think before you type.

 

Make her lick your balls

doesn't work with "but only if she consents." Make implies force.

 

I do not think he was trying to advocate that a man go up to a complete stranger and tell her and/or force her to lick his ba*ls in the context of "rape".

I don't think he was talking about dragging a woman into an alley or probably even pushing a woman's head down. He's preening. But some young guys read this forum and "make her lick your balls" sounds like force.

 

When you have her beneath you and you are pounding the sht out of her... just remember ur the one who gets to cum inside her not the other way around. Make her lick your balls... and remember she has no balls to lick. Finaly and most importantly realize we were given more raw power, women will never know what its like to be so strong (most women won't know) Would you rather enjoy action/comedies or romantic/comedies you pick... oh yeah it was decided for you.

I get that you are trying to make men feel better who feel like they don't have any power, but this sounds like you don't like women. It sounds like you consider them less than you. It is possible to build men up without tearing down women.

[Skump]

It seems like your averge looking women has many more options in the dating field then your average looking Man, an average looking women has a decent amount of suitors to get dates from where you average looking guy has to get shot down numerous times before he even gets a number

 

Sorta. Women have more options for ONS meaningless sex than man. Given that plenty of men basically keep score by the number of random chicks they've f*cked, that admittedly seems to put women at a relative advantage.

 

Here's the flip side, though: Women don't keep score that way. Most women want a satisfying LTR. Random meaningless sex isn't putting notches on their score card. It's not bringing them closer to their real goal. Moreover, finding a satisfying LTR is at least as hard for women as for men, and maybe harder.

 

In a sense, then, your complaint - while reasonable from your own perspective - is absurd viewed broadly. It would be like a gay guy telling me how damn lucky I am to be straight, because "soooo many hot queer men would want to have bragging rights for popping [my] cherry." Well, yes, that's probably true. But the fact remains that I don't want to get f*cked in the ass by any man, hot or not.

[Mad Max]

^^I agree. That type of behavior is nothing short of sociopathic and sadistic.

[Green]

Green-

 

I think you've probably put a lot of effort into being confident around women.

 

But, you need to think about what you say and not just complain that people took you the wrong way.

 

I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt, but you also have to realize there are some messed up guys out there and some of them probably read this forum.

 

So not only does some of what you wrote creep some women out, it could make a bad guy think that his behavior is okay. That doesn't make you responsible for anything a bad guy does, but you should think before you type.

 

 

doesn't work with "but only if she consents." Make implies force.

 

 

I don't think he was talking about dragging a woman into an alley or probably even pushing a woman's head down. He's preening. But some young guys read this forum and "make her lick your balls" sounds like force.

 

 

I get that you are trying to make men feel better who feel like they don't have any power, but this sounds like you don't like women. It sounds like you consider them less than you. It is possible to build men up without tearing down women.

 

Now I'm not only sounding like a rapist... but I'm some how going to create rapists according to you. Really you must get off writing this fantastical crap. Go read lovely bones and give me a break. I in know way tear down women thats why you do. You make them out to be these fragile things that have no will of there own. So fragile in your world that if I write a sentance "make them lick your balls" I'm sudenly insighting rape. I'm just using the fcking venacular of our day "make him give you a raise" "make him take out the trash" ... AND YES IT WAS MEANT TO SOUND FORCEFUL.. but not in some RAPING way as you accuse. The fact of the matter is its all fun and games cause this is online but if this were the real world and you said that I sounded like a rapist in front of people I'd sue your ass and win and I'd be laughing all the way to the bank that is if you even have any money which I doubt from your ignorant ways

 

^^I agree. That type of behavior is nothing short of sociopathic and sadistic.

 

You talking about me? or That girl... or was it the comment SKump made about "poppin" ass "cheries"

[Mad Max]

You talking about me? or That girl... or was it the comment SKump made about "poppin" ass "cheries"

 

 

I'm talking about you.

[that girl]

I in [no] way tear down women

This is tearing down women.

When you have her beneath you and you are pounding the sht out of her... just remember ur the one who gets to cum inside her not the other way around. Make her lick your balls... and remember she has no balls to lick. Finaly and most importantly realize we were given more raw power, women will never know what its like to be so strong (most women won't know)

 

You make them out to be these fragile things that have no will of there own.

It is because I know women have a will of their own that I don't think you should make them do anything.

 

I'm just using the fcking venacular of our day "make him give you a raise" "make him take out the trash" ... AND YES IT WAS MEANT TO SOUND FORCEFUL.. but not in some RAPING way as you accuse.

It sounds hella creepy to say that men should forcefully get women to suck their balls.

 

Seriously Green one of the creepist, most annoying things a man can do in bed is try to force a woman to blow him. The vast majority of women consider it a sign of a guy who is crappy in bed at the very least.

 

I know you're getting defensive, but don't you want to be good in bed? I'm not sure if you're just completely set on defending yourself or if you actually think that forcefully trying to make a woman suck your balls makes you either crap in bed or a rapist.

 

The fact of the matter is its all fun and games cause this is online but if this were the real world and you said that I sounded like a rapist in front of people I'd sue your ass and win and I'd be laughing all the way to the bank that is if you even have any money which I doubt from your ignorant ways

*Facepalm* No, you wouldn't be able to sue me for that.

[Green]

This is tearing down women.

 

 

 

It is because I know women have a will of their own that I don't think you should make them do anything.

 

 

It sounds hella creepy to say that men should forcefully get women to suck their balls.

 

Seriously Green one of the creepist, most annoying things a man can do in bed is try to force a woman to blow him. The vast majority of women consider it a sign of a guy who is crappy in bed at the very least.

 

I know you're getting defensive, but don't you want to be good in bed? I'm not sure if you're just completely set on defending yourself or if you actually think that forcefully trying to make a woman suck your balls makes you either crap in bed or a rapist.

 

 

*Facepalm* No, you wouldn't be able to sue me for that.

 

You can sue for anything especialy slander.

 

I can tell you are having a lot of trouble understanding the concept of locker room talk.... but just understand the message wasnt rape. If you want to continue to act confused like you are explaining to me some one smarter then you what rape is you go ahead and indulge yourself in that fantasy.

 

The only thing I want to be in this world is me. And I give that same right to others. I am HERO not a VILLIAN. I'm against RAPE in all its forms. Especialy the RAPE of men in PRISON which is considered a joke and in reality it is the worst kind of rape and happens to men all over this country all the time in prison. I personaly know of some one who went into prison for DUI and he got raped by a group of men. No one seems to care about that. Yet here I am getting attacked by some anonymouse holier then though LS poster who thinks writing someting silly like "Make her suck your balls and pound the sht out of her" makes me a rapist. NO it makes me who I am. You don't like it you shouldn't read it because we've had this exchange and I have logic you have clogic

[that girl]

I can tell you are having a lot of trouble understanding the concept of locker room talk....

We're not in a locker room and I don't think either of us our teenagers.

 

But if you look at my first post in this thread, I did try to give you the benefit of the doubt. But rather than backpedaling, you defended it.

 

just understand the message wasnt rape. If you want to continue to act confused like you are explaining to me some one smarter then you what rape is you go ahead and indulge yourself in that fantasy.

Here's the thing- forcefully dragging someone's mouth to your cock can go a few ways

 

1- She's totally into it, highly unlikely

2- She flips out on you, ruining the whole night for both of you

3- She ignores your forceful suggestion, screws you any way and then avoids you and tells your friends how crappy you are in bed.

4- She feel truly forced because of your behavior, which makes it rape.

 

I am HERO not a VILLIAN. I'm against RAPE in all its forms.

 

Then be more thoughtful with your words. Stop justifying something that multiple people have said isn't cool.

 

I personaly know of some one who went into prison for DUI and he got raped by a group of men. No one seems to care about that.

No one hear is saying "When you get to prison, make your cellmate suck your balls."

 

Be a grown up. Realize you put your foot in your mouth and take responsibility for it. That is what a man would do.

[Green]

We're not in a locker room and I don't think either of us our teenagers.

 

But if you look at my first post in this thread, I did try to give you the benefit of the doubt. But rather than backpedaling, you defended it.

 

 

Here's the thing- forcefully dragging someone's mouth to your cock can go a few ways

 

1- She's totally into it, highly unlikely

2- She flips out on you, ruining the whole night for both of you

3- She ignores your forceful suggestion, screws you any way and then avoids you and tells your friends how crappy you are in bed.

4- She feel truly forced because of your behavior, which makes it rape.

 

 

Then be more thoughtful with your words. Stop justifying something that multiple people have said isn't cool.

 

 

No one hear is saying "When you get to prison, make your cellmate suck your balls."

 

Be a grown up. Realize you put your foot in your mouth and take responsibility for it. That is what a man would do.

 

I didn't put my foot in my mouth your adding words into what I originaly wrote.

 

First off I don't drag people over to my balls, I have them open their mouth wide and gently place my balls inside for maximum ball sucking... second I've been with my gf for 2 years now so she really can't feel forced into doing anything UNLESS I ACTUALY LITTERALY FORCE HER.... Finaly I am a little rough even with new girls but I always keep and eye out for a girl who might feel forced... and I have never had anything like that happen... Its called judgment and I have to trust in mine... because im' not going to do the silly "is it olright if we get naked" "is it olright if we have sex" "do you feel forced" "is it olright if we continue having sex"... seriously if a girl looks scared, or wants to stop even if its right when I'm about to cum... I'm all for it... but I'm not going to take part in the paranoid world you live.

 

Now tell me were you raped?

[that girl]

There are about a million miles between this:

because im' not going to do the silly "is it olright if we get naked" "is it olright if we have sex" "do you feel forced" "is it olright if we continue having sex"...

 

and this:

Make her lick your balls

AND YES IT WAS MEANT TO SOUND FORCEFUL

 

 

First off I don't drag people over to my balls, I have them open their mouth wide and gently place my balls inside for maximum ball sucking...

Ugh. You have them open their mouths? The way it is supposed to go is that she, with no suggestion from you pulls your balls into her mouth. If she's the one doing it, she's generally the one who makes the move, not you.

 

If your girlfriend is into this kind of stuff, fine. But the normal course of events is not "Open your mouth."

 

Now tell me were you raped?

No, I haven't been raped. If I had been would you say I was broken in some way and my opinion didn't count? Even though one in six women have been raped?

 

You don't even seem to understand what I'm saying Green.

 

I don't think a guy needs to constantly ask permission, but I don't think a guy should ever think about "making" a woman do something in bed. It is creepy, it is insulting, it sounds like crappy sex, and it sounds like rape. Nothing about it is appealing.

 

If you actually like women and aren't some psychopath, stop taking about making her doing things and you get to cum in her, she doesn't get to cum in you. That is the talk of 16 year old virgins and men who want to abuse women. If your girlfriend likes being passive, fine. But don't thjnk that is the normal way everyone's sex life works.

[zengirl]

It's the attitude that makes it gross and offensive, Green. You wrote about sex and said it was supposed to sound "forceful". . . Of course some women are going to find that creepy. Sex + forceful + message board talking to strangers = creepy. This is not a difficult equation. It's not about what's done between two consenting adults. . . I definitely don't care about the acts mentioned, but the tone was totally creepy. And it was strange to bring such explicit sexuality into this particular conversation, which didn't start there. To me, it basically read as "You have the physical power to have control in sex, so be grateful for that." Talking about raw power, who cums, etc. . . it's gross and demeaning in those contexts. No one should have to demean another to embrace their own power.

Edited December 10, 2010 by zengirl

[Untouchable_Fire]

It's the attitude that makes it gross and offensive, Green. You wrote about sex and said it was supposed to sound "forceful". . . Of course some women are going to find that creepy. Sex + forceful + message board talking to strangers = creepy. This is not a difficult equation. It's not about what's done between two consenting adults. . . I definitely don't care about the acts mentioned, but the tone was totally creepy. And it was strange to bring such explicit sexuality into this particular conversation, which didn't start there. To me, it basically read as "You have the physical power to have control in sex, so be grateful for that." Talking about raw power, who cums, etc. . . it's gross and demeaning in those contexts. No one should have to demean another to embrace their own power.

 

99% chance that's how your BF talks to other guys in a locker room style environment.

 

Why does it seem like some sort of crazy surprise that power and dominance play an integral role in male sexuality? Do you know anything about men? That doesn't make it creepy.

 

I tried to make this type of point earlier when we had the threads about NSA sex. From a man's point of view sex without love is very much about control and dominance. You clearly didn't get it then... and your still failing to get it now.

[Untouchable_Fire]

I don't think a guy needs to constantly ask permission, but I don't think a guy should ever think about "making" a woman do something in bed. It is creepy, it is insulting, it sounds like crappy sex, and it sounds like rape. Nothing about it is appealing.

If you actually like women and aren't some psychopath, stop taking about making her doing things and you get to cum in her, she doesn't get to cum in you. That is the talk of 16 year old virgins and men who want to abuse women. If your girlfriend likes being passive, fine. But don't thjnk that is the normal way everyone's sex life works.

 

You are objecting to his attitude not his actions.

 

It would seem to me that it's not a good idea to put your balls in someone's mouth against their will. That sounds like a good way to get neutered.

[Green]

It's the attitude that makes it gross and offensive, Green. You wrote about sex and said it was supposed to sound "forceful". . . Of course some women are going to find that creepy. Sex + forceful + message board talking to strangers = creepy. This is not a difficult equation. It's not about what's done between two consenting adults. . . I definitely don't care about the acts mentioned, but the tone was totally creepy. And it was strange to bring such explicit sexuality into this particular conversation, which didn't start there. To me, it basically read as "You have the physical power to have control in sex, so be grateful for that." Talking about raw power, who cums, etc. . . it's gross and demeaning in those contexts. No one should have to demean another to embrace their own power.

 

Its hard to explain myself when a lot of my posts get deleted by moderators including posts I made in this thread responding to acusations of being a sadistic sociopath... but I'll try and hopefuly this post stays up.

 

First, off you are a girl who thinks you know what its like to be a man. I recognize you because you come onto threads and argue with me about what men should really be like. I'm about embracing who and what I am. Not trying to be this fake person who you think men really are.

 

Which brings up another point. The SUPOSED "Friend ZONe" I believe in it only so far as its a trap MEN make and put themselves in and they have the key... but they mentaly trap themselves. See when a guy is your close friend, and he does alone date type ativities with you and makes an efort to talk to you on the phone or he just does dinners and movies with you... that is a guy who is SEXUALY attracted to you. The "average" guy can fall into this silly trap because he believes friedship to be a less SCARY route to romance with less chance of the Dreaded REJECTIon. Now a girl like you argues with me that... no he's just my friend... like a brother. You could never understand the truth.

 

This thread is made by a guy and being read by guys (even if they don't post) who are fed up. Now the key to their sucess is confidence and the place to draw that motivation... that confidence.. is their HORNYNESS. Sorry if it creeped you out or it was to raw but it was "locker room" talk for lack of a better word which was meant to motivate.

 

I would never just out of the blue say to a girl. I want to fck the sht out of you... I mean it would have to be the right moment. Look may not get it and may creep you out, but to a depressed guy... a guy specificaly frustrated with women it may be a motivational, humerous/powerful thought to says something like "you go out their and you tittie fck some lucky girl" now to then come out and say "you sound like some rapist for saying it such a forceful manner"(mind you I never said rape or force against their will) to take that next step shows their insecurity not mine.

 

99% chance that's how your BF talks to other guys in a locker room style environment.

 

Why does it seem like some sort of crazy surprise that power and dominance play an integral role in male sexuality? Do you know anything about men? That doesn't make it creepy.

 

I tried to make this type of point earlier when we had the threads about NSA sex. From a man's point of view sex without love is very much about control and dominance. You clearly didn't get it then... and your still failing to get it now.

 

I think many women these days outwardly "act" like they want a girly man. Truth is they don't but that is the talk on boards like this. They want a guy that will be their little gay friend, and yes if they are sexualy attracted they want a guy who can have sex ect... but when they talk they want him to be a man who doesn't act like a man.

 

ITs another reason the average man is frustrated. Women don't deal with this identity crisis so many men buy into. The sht Zengirl, or that girl, or the hordes of other women on this site spew out doesn't effect me. entertaining really. I just find it sad to see so many men spewing this crap out and wondering why they do so bad with women... its because you're a fake man made in the immage of pussy.(pssy)

 

You are objecting to his attitude not his actions.

 

It would seem to me that it's not a good idea to put your balls in someone's mouth against their will. That sounds like a good way to get neutered.

 

I think they are objecting to my existance. They want to teach me to be another person. They think they can shame me. really funny

[theBrokenMuse]

Shawties

A shawtie? Sounds like newfangled version of a shamwow.

[samspade]

Eggs are expensive. Sperm is cheap. You do the math.

[Mme. Chaucer]

You are objecting to his attitude not his actions.

 

That is the whole point of all the objections. Nobody has cared a whit about his personal sexual practices ... though I would be pretty surprised if his girlfriend really enjoys sex with him, if it's as presented here. Perhaps she is just a very insecure and submissive person who dares not stick up for her own feelings and desires. I gather that Green would not be interested in any woman who would speak up for herself, from his posts.

 

Green - unconfident men do not need to be whupped up into some kind of testosterone froth about "men are more powerful than women." I get the idea that you believe such a thing has been helpful for you. From my perspective, I think not, but whatever.

 

I believe such men, and women as well, need to improve their own self confidence and esteem from within, NOT at the expense of another group of people.

 

There is some kind of Greek chorus here on LS of men who are so terrified of women that they seem to believe that the only way they can deal is to put women "in their place," to have control, to "teach them lessons," etc. It is really disheartening.

 

You guys are so defensive about any woman getting the better of you, as you would perceive it, that you are behaving in very ignorant, bigoted and bitter ways.

 

There is a lot of moaning about misandry and bad deeds done by women. But where is the omnipresent chorus of women here on LS incessantly going on about the flaws of MEN (as if the entire gender were not made up of individuals)?

 

Can you imagine the outcry if a core group of women here started to post like you guys do? Lots of individual women do it here, but what's missing is the sisterhood of agreeing voices if a woman is being a tool.

 

I, as another female poster said as well, call out men and women equally for gender bashing or other unfair behavior.

 

Have you particular guys no interest in evolving YOURSELVES?

Edited December 10, 2010 by Mme. Chaucer

[Untouchable_Fire]

That is the whole point of all the objections. Nobody has cared a whit about his personal sexual practices ... though I would be pretty surprised if his girlfriend really enjoys sex with him, if it's as presented here. Perhaps she is just a very insecure and submissive person who dares not stick up for her own feelings and desires. I gather that Green would not be interested in any woman who would speak up for herself, from his posts.

 

Eh? I might not agree with everything Green says... but I really doubt his GF is abnormal or doesn't enjoy him in the bedroom.

 

Green - unconfident men do not need to be whupped up into some kind of testosterone froth about "men are more powerful than women." I get the idea that you believe such a thing has been helpful for you. From my perspective, I think not, but whatever.

I believe such men, and women as well, need to improve their own self confidence and esteem from within, NOT at the expense of another group of people.

 

You are not the person to give a lecture on how men should build confidence. I really don't think it is something you understand. You are a very wise and intelligent person when dealing with certain topics. Understanding men however is not your forte. For the most part you just don't get it.

 

There is some kind of Greek chorus here on LS of men who are so terrified of women that they seem to believe that the only way they can deal is to put women "in their place," to have control, to "teach them lessons," etc. It is really disheartening.

You guys are so defensive about any woman getting the better of you, as you would perceive it, that you are behaving in very ignorant, bigoted and bitter ways.

 

I'd say you missed the mark on this one too. Most of those guys just are venting frustration from bad real world experiences. Look most of these guys just lack confidence. That's it... just confidence. Given that their attitudes would begin to turn.

 

It's only when you start talking about divorce, child custody and spousal support that you see most guys get terrified of women. That stuff scares the crap out of me too. If the shoe was on the other foot, women would be just as freaked out.

 

There is a lot of moaning about misandry and bad deeds done by women. But where is the omnipresent chorus of women here on LS incessantly going on about the flaws of MEN (as if the entire gender were not made up of individuals)?

Can you imagine the outcry if a core group of women here started to post like you guys do? Lots of individual women do it here, but what's missing is the sisterhood of agreeing voices if a woman is being a tool.

 

Oh... that sisterhood does exist here... they just are not as vocal. It's not typically an emotional need most women have.

 

I, as another female poster said as well, call out men and women equally for gender bashing or other unfair behavior.

Have you particular guys no interest in evolving YOURSELVES?

 

That's true! I have a lot of respect for you about that.

 

But... in this particular case. Green is just expressing a very common part of male sexuality. I don't think you should be upset with him for that... or try to change him. That attitude is part of nearly every guy in some way. I'd bet if I put your husband in a locker room with a bunch of guys and we all started talking... he would not sound too different from Green.

[TheWatcher]

Men have a harder time getting laid. And maybe getting initial dates.

 

 

Why do you think that this is ? In your own opinion/experience,zengirl ? Just curious....

[that girl]

I think many women these days outwardly "act" like they want a girly man. Truth is they don't but that is the talk on boards like this. They want a guy that will be their little gay friend, and yes if they are sexualy attracted they want a guy who can have sex ect... but when they talk they want him to be a man who doesn't act like a man.

 

ITs another reason the average man is frustrated. Women don't deal with this identity crisis so many men buy into. The sht Zengirl, or that girl, or the hordes of other women on this site spew out doesn't effect me. entertaining really. I just find it sad to see so many men spewing this crap out and wondering why they do so bad with women... its because you're a fake man made in the immage of pussy.(pssy)

You're mixing about a half dozen things up. Most women do want a man to make the first move for a variety of reasons. And yes, they want him to enjoy sex and not be timid in bed. But there is a world of difference between asking permission before every sex act and forcefully dragging someone's mouth to your cock.

 

My guess is that Green's girlfriend either has submission fantasies or she is too inexperienced to know sex doesn't have to be like that. I'm hoping she's on the submissive side, which would make his whole act mutually enjoyable.

 

But I am sick of hearing some guys on here say how women don't know what they want. They say they want X when really they want Y. That is disrespectful to women. I know what I want. It may not be what Green's girlfriend wants, but I know what I want.

 

a guy specificaly frustrated with women it may be a motivational, humerous/powerful thought to says something like "you go out their and you tittie fck some lucky girl" now to then come out and say "you sound like some rapist for saying it such a forceful manner"(mind you I never said rape or force against their will) to take that next step shows their insecurity not mine.

Green, I don't know why you don't understand this, but I am not at all offended by "you go out and tittie **** some girl." That doesn't imply force and it doesn't imply women are less than men.

 

When you have her beneath you and you are pounding the sht out of her... just remember ur the one who gets to cum inside her not the other way around. Make her lick your balls... and remember she has no balls to lick. Finaly and most importantly realize we were given more raw power, women will never know what its like to be so strong (most women won't know)

This says women are less than men. This says men should feel superior to women. You can encourage a man to feel more confident without saying women are less than men. This is messed up and a guy who thinks like that isn't likely to have a happy relationship.

 

Make her lick your balls

implies force. "Find a woman to ****" doesn't imply force because the word make isn't in there.

 

First off I don't drag people over to my balls, I have them open their mouth wide and gently place my balls inside for maximum ball sucking...

This is a very porno view of a blow job and in my experience, something most women would be massively turned off by. Like, a woman shouldn't leap up and sit on a guy's face unless she knows he's into that and a man shouldn't start "forcefully" telling a girl to open her mouth for his balls unless he knows she is into that kind of submissive talk. For most people, oral sex is something the giver not the reciever usually initates.

 

From a man's point of view sex without love is very much about control and dominance. You clearly didn't get it then... and your still failing to get it now.

Unless you have several scientific articles to back you up, this is just your opinion not a fact. I'm semi-well read on the science of sexuality and I've never come across a study that says sex outside a relationship is about dominance for men. Pleasure is usually considered the reason people have sex.

[phineas]

I'm just commenting on the title of this thread since I don't really care to read 5 pages of..well you know.

 

Average women have more options than average men.

Until they hit 40 or thereabouts.

 

Then average men have more options than above average women & above average men have the most options. (unless their d-bags that pose bare-chested on dating sites to show how ripped they are at 40) for some reason they only attract low quality women that just want a hot FWB.

 

but then it seems that's all their looking for because their divorced & have kids & don't intend on changing that ever. LOL!

[SincereOnlineGuy]

Well, kind of.

 

A lot if not most women would like to have better options or better partners than what they currently have. But they are unwilling to make the effort and choose to stick with the easy catches.

 

Believe it or not, tons of women are married to men whom they have zero physical attraction for.

 

 

 

Yours is clueless thinking:

 

In no way would "most" women like to have better partners than what they currently have.

 

Human nature is such that partners, and especially women, are caused to grow closer and closer to those with whom they are intimate. A woman whose partner is clearly identifiable as one who is "in the relationship with all he's got" is a woman who is pretty content.

 

If you sit here reading Loveshack, you won't find too many questions like:

 

"how can I get my loving, otherwise wonderful husband to take out the trash on Thursday evenings?"

 

Instead, those who are posting on Loveshack in frustration over their partners are those whose partners are NOT "in the relationship with all they've got". That accounts for a huge difference.