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The average women has many more dating options then then the average Man

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pandagirl Established Member

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Where I live, if you are merely an "average" woman, you don't really get a second look.

 

Average guys who are confident, non-jerks have their pick of the liter.

SincereOnlineGuy Established Member

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The average women has many more dating options then then the average Man

 

 

Alert the authorities!

 

 

(and then tell Al Gore)

carhill Established Member

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I better keep my

sequestered away from LS and the real world.... ;)
Surrealist Established Member

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Alert the authorities!

 

 

(and then tell Al Gore)

 

 

I knew it! It's a conspiracy!! :eek:

fishtaco Established Member

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Where I live, if you are merely an "average" woman, you don't really get a second look.

 

Average guys who are confident, non-jerks have their pick of the liter.

 

Wow, I should move to your area. I'm cool with lots of average women.

 

Oh wait, you said non-jerks. Nevermind.

musemaj11 Established Member

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All thanks to testosterone disadvantage which ensures that men r more desperate for sex. Without 3x higher testosterone level, men would be as less visual as women n would be as less desperate as women.

Mad Max Established Member

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I grew up thinking that a guy is supposed to ask a girl out. The one time I asked a guy out, he rejected me. I will never do that again.

 

 

That's life. What if men decided to stop asking women out if they get rejected once? You have two choices: You can either be proactive, get rejected some of the time and find the one for you. Or, you can sit there, look pretty, and think your subtle advances will work.

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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All thanks to testosterone disadvantage which ensures that men r more desperate for sex. Without 3x higher testosterone level, men would be as less visual as women n would be as less desperate as women.

 

Try soy. It has been proven to lower testosterone in male marmosets, anyway. Or your doctor can help you with some stronger synthetic hormones. I'm sure you'd benefit.

musemaj11 Established Member

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Try soy. It has been proven to lower testosterone in male marmosets, anyway. Or your doctor can help you with some stronger synthetic hormones. I'm sure you'd benefit.

Sure I would.

 

A few months back I took natural pills to reduce my testosterone. It was like heaven. Suddenly all women looked ugly and even a naked woman did not do anything for me.

 

Unfortunately, I play college sport and the lack of testosterone greatly affected my performance.

 

Ill definitely get back on it once Im out of school.

 

I even opened a thread about it here but it got closed for some reason. I really suggest all men try it. It will save you countless amount of money over the course of your life. ;)

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musemaj11 Established Member

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Clearly you've never heard of masturbation.

Its nothing compared to taking Libidno.

 

I get horny again a few hours after masturbating.

musemaj11 Established Member

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So you'd rather take toxic drugs then do something that feels good?

I still had a sex drive, but it was nothing as shackling as normally.

 

I found the experience very liberating.

 

For a lot of people drinking and gambling are good. But one man's treasure is another man's burden.

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zengirl Established Member

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Men have a harder time getting laid. And maybe getting initial dates.

 

Women have a harder time getting a relationship when they want one. If a decent, average looking man with no major issues wanted to invest in a serious relationship, he could likely find one easier than the same in a woman.

 

Average looking men who actually invest emotionally in the women they take out (after the woman has given them some signals of interest) almost always get a relationship with that woman. Not true for the same said of a woman.

 

The genders are different when it comes to dating. Is this a newsflash?

Green Established Member

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Men have a harder time getting laid. And maybe getting initial dates.

 

Women have a harder time getting a relationship when they want one. If a decent, average looking man with no major issues wanted to invest in a serious relationship, he could likely find one easier than the same in a woman.

 

Average looking men who actually invest emotionally in the women they take out (after the woman has given them some signals of interest) almost always get a relationship with that woman. Not true for the same said of a woman.

 

The genders are different when it comes to dating. Is this a newsflash?

 

I think men have it better but harder. Sure a man can get into a "relationship" easier... but he may be treated like a bch who gets no sex and just pays for everything. A guy who is hesitent to get into a relationship and in fact dates around is more likely to A) get treated better by women B) be offered higher quality relationship.

 

You're going to end up with a single mother or something if you just settle.

 

NOW MEN STOP CRYING (boo hoo I have it harder) You know who else has it harder... ASTRONAUGHTS have it harder then CASHIERS... but its more WORTH IT. When you have her beneath you and you are pounding the sht out of her... just remember ur the one who gets to cum inside her not the other way around. Make her lick your balls... and remember she has no balls to lick. Finaly and most importantly realize we were given more raw power, women will never know what its like to be so strong (most women won't know) Would you rather enjoy action/comedies or romantic/comedies you pick... oh yeah it was decided for you.

 

Look it would be great if I got to keep all the advatages of being a man and got all the advantages of being a woman... but women have thier own disadvantages and advantages and I pick being a man over a woman... end of story. these threads are counter productive. While I find it interesting to explore the diferences between men and women.. complaining about the diferences or saying that one side has it easier is to simple for my taste.

 

I urge you to think MEN have it better and to mostly keep it to yourself. (I know I'm not) but you know what I mean

Disillusioned Established Member

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I better keep my
sequestered away from LS and the real world.... ;)

 

Look, what's done is done... if you're trying to humiliate me because I happen to have a Realdoll, guess what, it isn't working. Shot wasted. You lose.

 

That's life. What if men decided to stop asking women out if they get rejected once? You have two choices: You can either be proactive, get rejected some of the time and find the one for you. Or, you can sit there, look pretty, and think your subtle advances will work.

 

OR, buy a book on how to develop your ESP and kiss hassles goodbye. :lmao:

collegeguy_24 Established Member

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This is why there are hookers and mail order brides from Russia and what ever.

 

and yes, I am mocking this thread because it has been discussed so many times its redundant.

monkey00 Established Member

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Just because women have more prospects than men, it doesn't mean they're of quality. Lots of dudes out there are just looking for sex or are losers and women know that.

 

Men on the other hand have a slightly fairer playing field, because they are the aggressors and ask the woman out, a lot of women don't ask guys out.

 

Because of that women are mostly limited to those guys who pursue her. At the end I think it's balanced for each sex in their own way.

MrNate Established Member

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Green and Zen bring up great points.

 

The first being that as a man who wants a relationship, you're going to have to TRY at some point, because it is highly likely it will be the other way around. After being on this board for several months, I think I've come to the conclusion that women in part naturally like men to be assertive because it affirms for them that their efforts to look attractive are paying off. I would imagine it could be a bit disheartening to go through all the efforts they go through, AND ask men out on top of it. I also don't think most women would be insulted if asked out in the proper way.

 

Zen also had a great point being that if a man wants a legitimate relationship, he is more likely to find one because chances are his interests align with many women! However, it's not so cut and dry for women. They have to make sure he's not after them for sex only.

 

I guess the main point is, yes, we're different when it comes to dating. But in the grand scheme of things, things aren't that bad for either gender. I honestly think a lot of the bitterness from the males comes from simple fear of rejection.

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AD1980 Established Member

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Green and Zen bring up great points.

 

I also don't think most women would be insulted if asked out in the proper way.

 

 

I wish,rejections bad enough but the fact that allot of women who reject make you feel like you have no right invading their airsapce makes it even harder

musemaj11 Established Member

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Because of that women are mostly limited to those guys who pursue her. At the end I think it's balanced for each sex in their own way.

Women dont ask men out because they dont want to not because they cant.

 

NOW MEN STOP CRYING (boo hoo I have it harder) You know who else has it harder... ASTRONAUGHTS have it harder then CASHIERS... but its more WORTH IT. When you have her beneath you and you are pounding the sht out of her... just remember ur the one who gets to cum inside her not the other way around. Make her lick your balls... and remember she has no balls to lick. Finaly and most importantly realize we were given more raw power, women will never know what its like to be so strong (most women won't know) Would you rather enjoy action/comedies or romantic/comedies you pick... oh yeah it was decided for you.

Lol, you are funny, but I have to disagree.

 

Who has more advantage depends on the location. In more liberal countries like USA, it is more advantageous being a woman. But in more rigid countries like in the Middle East or Latin America, it is more advantageous being a man.

Distant78 Established Member

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I just want to say this is complete BS and it's nothing but a stereotype.

SincereOnlineGuy Established Member

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Women dont ask men out because they dont want to not because they cant.

 

 

 

Well, moreso because they don't have to...

Disillusioned Established Member

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I just want to say this is complete BS and it's nothing but a stereotype.

 

In that case, maybe people should stop perpetuating the stereotype by acting it out, ya think?

musemaj11 Established Member

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Well, moreso because they don't have to...

Well, kind of.

 

A lot if not most women would like to have better options or better partners than what they currently have. But they are unwilling to make the effort and choose to stick with the easy catches.

 

Believe it or not, tons of women are married to men whom they have zero physical attraction for.

waynebrady Established Member

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I grew up thinking that a guy is supposed to ask a girl out. The one time I asked a guy out, he rejected me. I will never do that again.

 

Now you know how much harder it is for men in Dating.

East7 Established Member

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Men have a harder time getting laid. And maybe getting initial dates.

 

Women have a harder time getting a relationship when they want one. If a decent, average looking man with no major issues wanted to invest in a serious relationship, he could likely find one easier than the same in a woman.

 

Average looking men who actually invest emotionally in the women they take out (after the woman has given them some signals of interest) almost always get a relationship with that woman. Not true for the same said of a woman.

 

The genders are different when it comes to dating. Is this a newsflash?

 

Interesting thread and I agree with Zengirl exept the part she says that if "the guy invest emotionnally he is more likely to have a relatioship". I would say women don't like needy and clingy, at first stages they like the guy to be dependable and then later on to show her love and affection.

 

It is obvious that women get more "go out" invitations then men - if both qualified average.

 

That's because the social model says that it comes to men to court and to chase. Nevertheless most of the women chase in a subtle way with buying signals. They will never ask you out but if you are not too stupid you'll get the "ask me out signal".

 

As my female friends report when this topic is mentioned, girls generally complain because :

 

- 90% of guys who come to pick them are loosers or silly (silly jokes, silly manners etc) - Being smart and confident is a huge turn-on.

- When it comes to build a quality relationship most of the guys either don't want to commit or they are not mature enough.

 

As men are more easy to please and seduce, the ugly truth is : At the end of the competition, women are the real selectors and not the selectee, Women choose the man they want and not the opposite.

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