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AD1980 Established Member

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It seems like your averge looking women has many more options in the dating field then your average looking Man, an average looking women has a decent amount of suitors to get dates from where you average looking guy has to get shot down numerous times before he even gets a number

 

You have a bunch of sex starved agressive dudes who hit on these women and it inflates their egos and gives them a sense of entitlement which makes it harder for your average guy to find a mate

 

Obviously this isnt true of all women at all but it seems like its getting more prevalent in society

TheBigQuestion Established Member

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Hasn't this topic been discussed ad nauseum on LS? Yes, it's generally true. So what? It's not about the cards we are dealt as men, it's how we play the hand. :)

Cracker Jack Established Member

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That's life, man.

hoping2heal Established Member

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It seems like your averge looking women has many more options in the dating field then your average looking Man, an average looking women has a decent amount of suitors to get dates from where you average looking guy has to get shot down numerous times before he even gets a number

 

You have a bunch of sex starved agressive dudes who hit on these women and it inflates their egos and gives them a sense of entitlement which makes it harder for your average guy to find a mate

 

Obviously this isnt true of all women at all but it seems like its getting more prevalent in society

 

On average women DO have more potential suitors than the average looking male. You can lop right in there that overweight and less than average looking women, also have more potential suitors on average, than your average looking male.

 

However, this has absolutely nothing to do with how many men hit on a woman and "over inflate her ego".

SmileFace Established Member

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Why beat a dead house ? We all know this is a proven fact.:lmao::lmao::lmao:

theBrokenMuse Established Member

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*groan* How many times is this old chestnut getting dragged up?

Lonely303Girl Member

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I don't agree with this at all. I don't know what I consider myself, but I've been called pretty, so I don't think looks have much to do with it. I have zero options in men. I had actually been crying and probably looked my worst when this guy gave me his number. It was the first number I have EVER gotten from a guy. I don't think it will ever happen again, though.

elastica Established Member

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Average Man: 2 dates in one year

Average Woman: 2 dates in one year

 

Average "financially stable" Man: 20 dates in one year

Average "financially stable": she is a b = no dates

 

LOOOL

SmileFace Established Member

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I don't agree with this at all. I don't know what I consider myself, but I've been called pretty, so I don't think looks have much to do with it. I have zero options in men. I had actually been crying and probably looked my worst when this guy gave me his number. It was the first number I have EVER gotten from a guy. I don't think it will ever happen again, though.

I am pretty sure if you walked up to ten random guys in a day. You will get more than 2 who allow your advances. Then you already beat your record.

 

You can't count your one. You haven't been proactive in trying to reach out to guys.Have you?

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I don't agree with this at all. I don't know what I consider myself, but I've been called pretty, so I don't think looks have much to do with it. I have zero options in men. I had actually been crying and probably looked my worst when this guy gave me his number. It was the first number I have EVER gotten from a guy. I don't think it will ever happen again, though.

I'm sure you will get more numbers later in life Lonely. I've never received a number from a girl.

fishtaco Established Member

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Yeah, but unless you're considering a sex change, who cares?

 

If you don't think you can compete against the other guys out there, then improve yourself.

elastica Established Member

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Plus, women do not find looks as important as men, therefore the average man actually has more dating options than the average woman. :p

Lonely303Girl Member

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I grew up thinking that a guy is supposed to ask a girl out. The one time I asked a guy out, he rejected me. I will never do that again.

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I grew up thinking that a guy is supposed to ask a girl out. The one time I asked a guy out, he rejected me. I will never do that again.

 

So you expect us to do it instead, nice.

Lonely303Girl Member

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I'm not that type of person. I've never been that life of the party type of girl that just bravely asked guys out. I want to be wanted and pursued, I guess.

SmileFace Established Member

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I'm not that type of person. I've never been that life of the party type of girl that just bravely asked guys out. I want to be wanted and pursued, I guess.

Then you really can't be any type of upset about your dating life.

 

If I go to school. Pay attention in class , take notes , and listen to the professor. Now I go home and don't study and never check my material. Now it is the time for a test come and I fail. Can I really be mad at the professor? Was I really expecting just for it to come to me?

Cracker Jack Established Member

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So does anyone. Rejection isn't any easier on guys than it is on women.

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So does anyone. Rejection isn't any easier on guys than it is on women.

 

actualy its much easier on most men then women. Women also have no incentive to be the one trying to impress. Just look at certain species of birds... the men have all the pretty feathers because they are the ones that need it to attract the females of their species.

 

Women have trouble some times even rejecting a guy... haha thats how shy some women are... its hard for them to even say "No" to a guy they don't like... thats why its so important to not be afraid of their rejection and take the power you do have... the power to TRY!

 

By the way loser women may have it easier then loser men... but Great men have an advantage no great woman will ever have...

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The thing is, most women (even the average-looking ones), know that men are 'easy' and just throwing attention their way in hopes of getting some from ANYone. It's not an ego boost, it's an annoyance, and it can make a girl feel cheap (which isn't sexy). It's more probable that you're being rebuffed because she's pissed at your insulting her intelligence than because she feels entitled to a millionaire.

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Then you really can't be any type of upset about your dating life.

 

If I go to school. Pay attention in class , take notes , and listen to the professor. Now I go home and don't study and never check my material. Now it is the time for a test come and I fail. Can I really be mad at the professor? Was I really expecting just for it to come to me?

 

Why can't I be upset about it? What is wrong with wanting to be asked out? And your analogy is terrible.

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Haha that was the point. It wasn't suppose to make sense .I was trying to show how you not being proactive doesn't make sense.

 

Anyway be mad if you want . Keep waiting for prince charming to come on by. Best of luck hun

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Why can't I be upset about it? What is wrong with wanting to be asked out? And your analogy is terrible.

 

He's saying take responsibility. If you want to do well on the test, study. If you want to be asked out, look pretty and learn to flirt and how to throw signals. Or, alternately, you can ask out guys. But you already said you don't want to do that anymore.

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He's saying take responsibility. If you want to do well on the test, study. If you want to be asked out, look pretty and learn to flirt and how to throw signals. Or, alternately, you can ask out guys. But you already said you don't want to do that anymore.

 

But I do make myself pretty, and I smile, and I feel like I'm being flirty. But nothing ever happens with it. Yet the little bitch who worked next to me got every guy that practically talks to her without even trying. She even gets hit on when she's hungover and looks terrible. That's always been my situation. I'm always ignored.

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The thing is, most women (even the average-looking ones), know that men are 'easy' and just throwing attention their way in hopes of getting some from ANYone. It's not an ego boost, it's an annoyance, and it can make a girl feel cheap (which isn't sexy). It's more probable that you're being rebuffed because she's pissed at your insulting her intelligence than because she feels entitled to a millionaire.

 

You feel cheap because some guy said something to you? Shouldn't you wait until you do something cheap?

 

Who knows who has it easier, men or women? Tiresome debate. Some individuals seem to have less trouble and more fun than other individuals. Isn't that really the end of it?

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This topic is already old... but I'll say it once more: we're not going to get female clones any time soon because "original" women would suddenly be the ones who have to impress.

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