Ms. Joolie Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 (edited) We've been dating on/off for 4.5 years... but I am happy to say we've made it one year nonstop. Jan - March This was rough. I got thrown overnight in jail for something stupid and I also had a setback with my eating disorder. WTH. He stayed with me. I got back on track with health and life went on. April - June I don't remember spring. But I guess the important thing is we continued seeing each other. Okay next. July - September Summer was GREAT! We traveled lots together. I LOVED that because then we would be planning things together. It was perfect. That's all I want. For us to plan our life together. :heart: Oct - Dec I was laid off and also started traveling extensively without him. (he's had work and his kids tie him down) Being away so much has taken its toll. Also I've had to suddenly rearrange my life so that's taken a lot out of me. Our relationship is strained but we are still together. And looking ahead? I'm the drama queen and he's the completely sane one, so I don't know. I do love him, he does love me, so we'll see what we come up with. Lessons learned? I must be completely sane in 2011 and focus more on my happiness. Whatever happens, happens. It'll all work out so long as I'm focused on what I'm personally committed to. Edited December 30, 2010 by Ms. Joolie
ConflictedGuy27 Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Wow, OP! have a good time in Berlin. I hear their party scene is crazy.
alexlakeman Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Bump, for every to update, as we approach the EOY and for me to update mines as well. Hmm, well I think most of us our on here frequently if we don't have a relationship. If not said relationship would consume our time. rolling into 2010.... July 2009 - March 2010 - Great relationship with a LONG term potential relationship, we had some awsome vacations, Toronto, Niagara Falls, Las Vegas, Florida Keys...all while I was juggling to "let's be friends" withe the ex gf.. I ended up cheating on my gf, she broke up, gave me a second chance, I f'd it up.. Was rolling into depression, finally did when this happened, I think I finally got out of depression (family stuff and this break up was the icing on the cake) in Sept - Oct this year. March 2010 - June 2010 - Dated the rebound, never saw her as a ltr candidate.May - June - on and off seeing someone from online, just fizzled..May - Sept - An ex gf calls me up, and we hook up as fwb for this period.. It was great, I really needed someone, but someone that would go away in the a.m., so I could have my alone time, lol..July - Dec - Went on countless first dates , I am guessing 10-12.. Only 2 interested me as ltr, and one I didn't catch her fancy, and the other? Hmm, can't remember.. I know there was a 2nd ltr potential ..Dec - gone on 3 dates with a nice gal, pretty face, low mileage, really , really great character, but she has a muffin top Balance of Dec - 3 dates was it with the one woman; no sex...I ended up going out with an ex gf mid month, so that allowed me to close the year without a sexless Dec... No particular person I am talking to at this point, just some initial talks with 2 online dating candidates... Financially speaking, I will be able to focus on dating and spend more time / $ on finding a potential s/o by 2/11 or 3/11. I was hopeful to have a s/o by NYE, not happening or by V-Day, since I am traveling to Vegas, it would've been the ideal scenario for a new g/f... oh well, probably not happening... In summary ytd: First dates only - 5; 4 decided by me, 1 by other person.Different sex partners - 6Made out with 9. including 3 in first dates.First date sex - 1
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