helovesmeyes Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Hi Guys!! Earlier this week I wrote how I was going to do NC to become more centered and less needy and dependent on him. Well it didn't work b/c he called me many times, and I answered, but this time I ended things for good. I have been trying to win him back for the past eight months, and although we weren't officially a couple, we were doing all of the things that couples do... well most of the things. He broke up with because I hurt we just argued a lot, and he couldn't take it, but during that time I changed for the better and tried to show him this. I was too late, but nonetheless I stuck it out. Yesterday however I decided that I couldn't any longer, so I ended things for good. He said he loves me and doesn't want to let me go, but that right now he didn't want a relationship, and understood if I needed to move on. So that is what I am doing, and now I feel free, completely at peace with him and myself. The truth is that I couldn't move on if we're still pretending to be a couple. I needed to detach myself completely. Our exes are wonderful people, and this is why we want them back, but they are JUST people like us, and we don't have to cater to them to get the back :-) Show you're sorry and if they can't get over what happened move on! Anyway I just wanted to share! Thanks!
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