dmb05 Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Hey everyone. I didn't know where else to put this, so I thought I'd just ask here. Story is my ex and I broke up back in July of this year. We were only together about 4 months, but we were really into each other. Problem was she basically cheated on me with a guy 12 years older than her that was in her past and just had to be with him again. I broke things off and went total NC. She tried getting back with me for about a month, and I finally told her to stop talking to me. Last Thursday, I get a text from her saying: I was just wanting to check up on you and see how you were doing. I hope you had a great Thanksgiving and hope you have a great Christmas. I responded that I'm doing great, thanks. She replied Good deal. Yesterday I got another text from her today. It said: I just passed you I replied oh, that's cool. She replied Yeah no one knows me in my new car. I should tell you I got it 2 or 3 months ago. I'm sorta undercover now I just replied that's cool again and she said yeah.... Am I just looking into things too much, or does it seem like she's trying to test the waters? I am one that thinks unless she says she wants me back, she's just trying to be friendly not not ignore each other anymore, but the above posts and everyone else say otherwise. I'm trying to keep the replies short, if I reply at all so maybe she'll get the hint that I'm not longer interested in her.
poorguy Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 I'd say testing the waters is what she is doing....Could be for a variety of reasons though..If you didn't want anything to do with someone why would you bother
paleblue Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 If you are really not interested in her than why reply? Now she thinks you are interested in talking and being friends because you respond.
Eddie Edirol Posted December 9, 2010 Posted December 9, 2010 She's texting you because the guy shes with isnt giving her enough attention and she wants to make sure you are still alone. When you reply to her, depending on how soon you reply to her, she knows youre not with someone yet. She's not going to get back with you so if you want to win this game, you either ignore her texts, or tell her to stop texting you entirely. Or tell her that you have a gf and you dont want her contacting you anymore. That will hurt her. Thats youre best bet.
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