teamtrek15 Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Okay you can read my previous post if you like but basically my gf had a girls name in her phone and i expected it to be a guy as can will read why in my past post. update went over last night and she admits that "karen" was a guy! she couldn't call "karen" because she delted the # from her phone. starts crying blah blah blah and claims it was just some guy she was talking to before she met me but swears on her life, son, etc. that she never slept with him while we were together. do i believe her? or should i hit the highway and leave this one alone?
poorguy Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Hmmm. I was wondering what happened with this last night. I couldn't remember what the thread was called though. So, she started crying did she???? Crying rythms with lying or Crying=lying in this case...You said all she needed to-Hit the road
Green Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Your dating a woman with a kid. Look unless you have a kid yourself or this child is grown up and out of the house I would LEAVE. Don't fall for the crying.
tigressA Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 She put in a guy's number under a girl's name in her phone. This is more than enough to indicate that she tried to pull the wool over your eyes and that something very improper was going on between the two of them while she's been with you. Run, don't walk. Now.
Author teamtrek15 Posted December 7, 2010 Author Posted December 7, 2010 I do have a kid too.Yeah you all are right! Thanks for all the help
SignalFlare Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Blatantly hiding a guy's number in her phone is pretty bad. But the tears could also mean that she nows how bad it is, and she's afraid of losing you over the mistake. I would not assume she slept with this guy, or if she did, she sounds like she really regrets it. If you aren't too emotionally involved with this girl it's probably better to just leave.
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