samantha_123 Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 my ex texted me out of the blue I really need some advice .... My ex boyfriend texted me out of the blue he texted me "are you ok? I had a dream that you died" What does that mean ? Is he trying to just talk to me again?
Teknoe Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 my ex texted me out of the blue I really need some advice .... My ex boyfriend texted me out of the blue he texted me "are you ok? I had a dream that you died" What does that mean ? Is he trying to just talk to me again? I'll give him the benefit of the doubt and say he wasn't fabricating or lying to you... he really dreamt that. The thing is, you have been on his mind, if he dreamt it. Dreams are of our subconscious so yeah. He's been thinking of you recently, maybe certain smells or events triggered flashbacks for him. It happens every so often with my ex, but it means nothing. Sometimes we just want to check in... by no means do we intend it as trying to re-hook up. So take it all at face value and give him the benefit of the doubt. However, do exercise smart caution. See if his actions are legit and sincere. Any red flags, run the other way. But yeah it never hurts to be civilized and friendly.
Author samantha_123 Posted December 7, 2010 Author Posted December 7, 2010 I'll give him the benefit of the doubt and say he wasn't fabricating or lying to you... he really dreamt that. The thing is, you have been on his mind, if he dreamt it. Dreams are of our subconscious so yeah. He's been thinking of you recently, maybe certain smells or events triggered flashbacks for him. It happens every so often with my ex, but it means nothing. Sometimes we just want to check in... by no means do we intend it as trying to re-hook up. So take it all at face value and give him the benefit of the doubt. Kind of werid getting a text from my ex when he text me a while back you annoy me I wish I never heard from you again...
Author samantha_123 Posted December 7, 2010 Author Posted December 7, 2010 I'll give him the benefit of the doubt and say he wasn't fabricating or lying to you... he really dreamt that. The thing is, you have been on his mind, if he dreamt it. Dreams are of our subconscious so yeah. He's been thinking of you recently, maybe certain smells or events triggered flashbacks for him. It happens every so often with my ex, but it means nothing. Sometimes we just want to check in... by no means do we intend it as trying to re-hook up. So take it all at face value and give him the benefit of the doubt. However, do exercise smart caution. See if his actions are legit and sincere. Any red flags, run the other way. But yeah it never hurts to be civilized and friendly. Kind of werid getting a text from my ex when he text me a while back you annoy me I wish I never heard from you again...
Author samantha_123 Posted December 7, 2010 Author Posted December 7, 2010 I really do hate this guy he put me threw hell and hes texting me....
whichwayisup Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 I really do hate this guy he put me threw hell and hes texting me.... He's fishing and also looking for an ego feed. Since you hate him so much, don't text back. Who cares about him. In the meantime ,change your number or block his number. Make it impossible for him to contact you again. He's your ex and not in your life anymore.
whichwayisup Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Kind of werid getting a text from my ex when he text me a while back you annoy me I wish I never heard from you again... Oh he's screwing with you then. Mind games and being an ahole. Ignore him, block him and forget about him.
Teknoe Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Oh he's screwing with you then. Mind games and being an ahole. Ignore him, block him and forget about him. ^ This. Indeed looking for attention and mind games. Avoid avoid avoid.
Author samantha_123 Posted December 8, 2010 Author Posted December 8, 2010 ^ This. Indeed looking for attention and mind games. Avoid avoid avoid. I just dont understand why he doesnt just leave me alone already.... He broke it off... We went out for six and half years (broke up for nine months of it) ... according to him (at the time) he was already seening somebody else... I think it is disrepectful to text your ex when you are seeing other people.... Why does he want attention from me ? why play mind games with me?
Teknoe Posted December 8, 2010 Posted December 8, 2010 I just dont understand why he doesnt just leave me alone already.... He broke it off... We went out for six and half years (broke up for nine months of it) ... according to him (at the time) he was already seening somebody else... I think it is disrepectful to text your ex when you are seeing other people.... Why does he want attention from me ? why play mind games with me? Honey, he's a guy -- nuff said. Furthermore, like you and me, he's also a human being. And we are naturally flawed and sinful. Some of course a lot more than others. Let go and move on. Block him if you have to, but whatever you do, DO NOT RESPOND BACK TO HIM EVER. Gotta make that clear to him and to YOURSELF. No contact. Be strong. Be cool. Be Samantha.
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