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I really need some advice ....

 

My ex boyfriend texted me out of the blue

 

he texted me

 

"are you ok? I had a dream that you died"

 

What does that mean ? Is he trying to just talk to me again?

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Well he is hardly saying he wants to reconcile.

I would take it for what it is, an excuse to contact or he did actually have a dream

Either one of them doesnt mean he wants to get back together.

I wouldnt respond tbh

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What happen? who broke up with who, etc... ? I dream about my ex gf on a nightly basis, the last one she was pregnant with twins from a guy that didn't want her. Don't think it means anything, but it does make it hard in the morning when I realize the that she is still not with me and doesn't want to be. I would never text her about it though.. So the fact that he texted you could possibly mean he misses you but I can't really say much without the facts of the break up to really see where his mind and heart is.

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I would point out that he said "dream" and not "nightmare" but that's just a technicality. I wouldn't respond just to see if he cares.

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My ex texted me after a week of NC with something similar.

"Had a sad dream about you and I. Hope you're doing ok."

 

I responded.

And regretted it.

It sent me right back to square one of healing.

It was pointless.

 

Your ex just wants some attention from you. Unless he is texting something of more substance, you're better off ignoring it.

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I really need some advice ....

 

My ex boyfriend texted me out of the blue

 

he texted me

 

"are you ok? I had a dream that you died"

 

What does that mean ? Is he trying to just talk to me again?

 

My ex did something similar to this a while back

 

She thought I died in a car crash.

 

Just stupid small talk. Ignore.

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My ex texted me after a week of NC with something similar.

"Had a sad dream about you and I. Hope you're doing ok."

 

I responded.

And regretted it.

It sent me right back to square one of healing.

It was pointless.

 

Your ex just wants some attention from you. Unless he is texting something of more substance, you're better off ignoring it.

 

 

It just gets me mad .... Ive had plenty of dreams about him but I dont text him about them... I texted him back " how did I die" he texted me that I hit my head on concrete ... I never texted him back .... This is from a guy who told me you annoy me I wish I never heard from you again....

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My ex did something similar to this a while back

 

She thought I died in a car crash.

 

Just stupid small talk. Ignore.

 

 

He broke up with me .... So he should leave me alone.... I just feel that if you truly want something to be over you wont contact them ever again....

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My ex texted me after a week of NC with something similar.

"Had a sad dream about you and I. Hope you're doing ok."

 

I responded.

And regretted it.

It sent me right back to square one of healing.

It was pointless.

 

Your ex just wants some attention from you. Unless he is texting something of more substance, you're better off ignoring it.

 

Its just been driving me a little crazy... I do feel like its a set back for me because I am trying to figure it out and analyze it to the bone…. Like what a minute it must have underlying meaning … Im looking threw a psychology point of view…

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I would point out that he said "dream" and not "nightmare" but that's just a technicality. I wouldn't respond just to see if he cares.

 

 

lol .... but I died ...

 

I was reading online that it means when you dream about an ex dying that you are ready to move on and the relationship is dead or that there has been some change in the relationship.

In my opinion its just a reason to talk to me so I don’t for get about him. Its just really annoying me that he texted me he broke up with me after 6 and a half years.

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What happen? who broke up with who, etc... ? I dream about my ex gf on a nightly basis, the last one she was pregnant with twins from a guy that didn't want her. Don't think it means anything, but it does make it hard in the morning when I realize the that she is still not with me and doesn't want to be. I would never text her about it though.. So the fact that he texted you could possibly mean he misses you but I can't really say much without the facts of the break up to really see where his mind and heart is.

 

He broke up with me after six and a half years ( we broke up for nine months of that). According to him the reason why he left me he did it though text message

 

 

 

Cuz u never changed and you said u wanted a baby to be set for life

  • U said you’d control me with a baby
  • Ur lazy
  • U don’t cook and clean
  • U just like to spend
  • U have a terrible temper

Keep in mind I have two college degrees , we don’t live together , I have a full time job (its not my ideal job but it brings in the income). He eats fast food 24/7 and is a super dirty person himself. He just spend thousands of $ on two football games...

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I think he just wanted to contact you.

 

 

I never contacted my ex because of dreams, but she was the one that dumped me.

 

I wouldn't reply.

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Hi Samantha -

 

Keep posting your really helping me too, how did he break up with you? yesterday at 1:00 i was looking out my window and I saw her drive by my house, this is a woman who said "I never want anything to do with you again". He is not over you, he wants you to respond and if you would agree to see him one more time, throughing you into a major turmoiol..

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I think he just wanted to contact you.

 

 

I never contacted my ex because of dreams, but she was the one that dumped me.

 

I wouldn't reply.

 

 

He said I annoyed him and that he wished that he never heard for me again … I had him block my number and he unblocked it and I asked him why he said “just” irony isn’t it? Now hes texting me … I think he was going though that **** the grass is greener on the other side…

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Hi Samantha -

 

Keep posting your really helping me too, how did he break up with you? yesterday at 1:00 i was looking out my window and I saw her drive by my house, this is a woman who said "I never want anything to do with you again". He is not over you, he wants you to respond and if you would agree to see him one more time, throughing you into a major turmoiol..

 

 

He broke up with me after six and a half years ( we broke up for nine months of that). According to him the reason why he left me he did it though text message out of the blue

 

 

 

 

Cuz u never changed and you said u wanted a baby to be set for life

  • U said you’d control me with a baby
  • Ur lazy
  • U don’t cook and clean
  • U just like to spend
  • U have a terrible temper

Keep in mind I have two college degrees , we don’t live together , I have a full time job (its not my ideal job but it brings in the income). He eats fast food 24/7 and is a super dirty person himself. He just spend thousands of $ on two football games...

 

 

 

I really don’t think that he will want to hang out with me again … this is from a guy who told me to “moved on , make new memories “, its done and over already” , " You annoy me I wish i never heard from you again " etc. etc..

 

Why do you think that hes not over me ? Its been two months cents we broke up..

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LuckyClover Established Member

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He's a prick... Go NC for good... Block his ass... what a douce!!! You deserve better, I wouldn't even think about this random text other then the same way you think of a tele marketer... "click" .. He's not even worth the thread.. I'd block him.

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He said I annoyed him and that he wished that he never heard for me again … I had him block my number and he unblocked it and I asked him why he said “just” irony isn’t it? Now hes texting me … I think he was going though that **** the grass is greener on the other side…

Yea, don't reply. you deserve better. I don't believe the green grass crap.

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The excuses he used when he broke off with you are just lame. Don't reply him and move on with a smile on the face!

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Its just been driving me a little crazy... I do feel like its a set back for me because I am trying to figure it out and analyze it to the bone…. Like what a minute it must have underlying meaning … Im looking threw a psychology point of view…

 

keep the upper hand samantha! dont respond to his summons for attention. send a nice loud message of SILENCE :)

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