Titania22 Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 Over a year, made more difficult by the fact i was in a relationship with someone I was attracted to.
Ruby Slippers Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 After my last breakup, I went without for just over a year, and it sucked. Then I had a brief involvement, with sex, and now it's been almost a year again. The first thing I think about every morning when I wake up is SEX. I don't know how much longer I can wait!
sumdude Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 Actual penetration sex.. wow 10 months! Longest I've gone in 15 years. Did some heavy fooling around about 5 months ago.. Dang dry spell. But I'm kinda at the point I'd rather get into something real again. But if the right opportunity arises I'm game. Fist thing I think about in the morning, last thing I think about before sleeping and about very 15 minutes in between. Reaching red zone DSB!
aerogurl87 Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 5 months and I'm in a LDR, so yeah it's hard.
carhill Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 24 months 16 days Easy to determine as it occurred on the day I funded my exW's new house.
alexlakeman Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 Well, depends if you ask a woman or a guy, lol.. what's sex? LOL... anyway, if a nice BJ ( I was the RECEIVER!!!!!!!!) on a first date last first week of Nov.. Since July- Aug 2010, it's average about once every 4-6 wks, since I don't have a gf, so I'm on the hunt all the time, lol... Through Aug 2010, it was every few days with the fwb, and March 2010 back it was frequent, as I had a gf... SO, 4-6 wks I guess has been the longest this year.. Lifetime ? Hmm, I guess that's about it... I really don't understand how guys can go way longer than that w/o sex... it's easier for women, I guess, but d,amn there are some women on here that have to be horny , since it's been a while
alexlakeman Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 Oh, when I was getting divorced..probably 6 months... f'cked up / funny thing ?? is that while we were getting divorced my ex wife and I were on talking terms and she kept saying she wanted to have sex, but only after we got the divorce signed... I was like "yeah, whatever", we had been together for 15 years, so the dating was not on our minds at that time... WOw, like clockwork!!!!!!!! A couple days after we got divorced , we got laid in my new house, lol... then it became regular, as she had to stay over so the kids would transition smoothly just being with me . THE kids did NOT see us sleeping together.. I think we had more / better sex the six months after we got divorced, than the last 5+ years of marriage, lol..
mr.dream merchant Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 It's been about 3 weeks for me and whoever the future girl is, she's going to get the serious business lmao...
Titania22 Posted December 6, 2010 Posted December 6, 2010 I think we had more / better sex the six months after we got divorced, than the last 5+ years of marriage, lol.. The pressure was off.
Sassafras Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 I went without for 2 years once. It was after a break-up and I just didn't feel the desire. I've since bounced back.
mr.dream merchant Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 I went without for 2 years once. It was after a break-up and I just didn't feel the desire. I've since bounced back. Insanity.
Sassafras Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 Insanity. Tell me about it. The first year wasn't bad, but year number 2 was rough!
skydiveaddict Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 No, I'm wrong, it's been about 14 months. But it meant nothing to me, made me feel worse.
tylo Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 So far it looks like I've gone the longest without sex. 41 years and counting.
Yer_Blues Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 19 years and counting. I'd have sex right now with just about anything that walks and a few things that don't. Genetically high sex-drive + social anxiety disorder? Oh god... how thankful I am for the Internet
eric82 Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 It's been a couple years for me, though I've had opportunities. The problem for me is actually finding a person I WANT to have sex with! Same here, but I'm a guy so in some ways I feel weird about it. In general, it seems I meet only one or two 'I want to have sex with her' quality of females per year when I'm single, and maybe half a dozen that 'I might get down with'. Most times these women turn out to either be already taken or they reveal themselves to have personalities that I realize I wouldn't like to be around much. The ones who don't fall in those categories reject me. I get that some guys just 'hit and quit it' with those they aren't into much who throw themselves at him, but I just don't see myself enjoying sex with someone if I'm not attracted to her. What am I missing here? I see time and time again how much drama it creates, using and leading people on, which of course I'd rather not knowingly do or invite into my life. Likewise, the last thing I want is to accidentally knock up an attractive-looking moron or a charming conniver and then be stuck trying to raise a child in a miserable environment. I'm approaching 30 and I've noticed that a lot of women my age seem to be rushing to start families or find a replacement daddy for their kids. This brings me to my next question: For the posters who said they go only a few days or weeks without sex, are you currently in a relationship or where are you finding your sex partners? Are they already there waiting for you when your previous thing ends? Honestly, how's the sex? I tend to have a quality-over-quantity mentality, but this dry spell has me rethinking my approach to sex. Thoughts?
Author 9Lives Posted December 7, 2010 Author Posted December 7, 2010 im starting to feel naughty and reading my XXX books. I love reading them!
EricaH329 Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 8 months, I try not to keep track though. It's depressing.
Knittress Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 About a day and a half.. but before the previous month it had been 2 years and four months. Which ENTIRELY explains the "one pabst, two pabst, RAAAWR!" phenomenon.
fishtaco Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 I heard that if you don't have sex for 6 months, you regain your virginity.
SmileFace Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 I heard that if you don't have sex for 6 months, you regain your virginity. lol .......................
LaraC Posted December 7, 2010 Posted December 7, 2010 I'm a girl, but have to agree, I don't understand why anyone would risk getting pregnant/ getting a disease just to bang someone for one night, the drama and everything afterwards.. too complicated and stressful, omg, imagine if you got herpes from kissing a stranger, then you'd have those mouth sores and every boyfriend even potential husband afterwards, for the REST of your LIFE, you'd have to let him know that yeah, you have incurable mouth herpes from some dumb**** you had a one night stand with and yes, he's going to get herpes too if he's in a relationship with you. Nope, just waiting until I'm in a relationship with someone I know and trust, personally not worth it otherwise. It's been a couple years for me, though I've had opportunities. Same here, but I'm a guy so in some ways I feel weird about it. In general, it seems I meet only one or two 'I want to have sex with her' quality of females per year when I'm single, and maybe half a dozen that 'I might get down with'. Most times these women turn out to either be already taken or they reveal themselves to have personalities that I realize I wouldn't like to be around much. The ones who don't fall in those categories reject me. I get that some guys just 'hit and quit it' with those they aren't into much who throw themselves at him, but I just don't see myself enjoying sex with someone if I'm not attracted to her. What am I missing here? I see time and time again how much drama it creates, using and leading people on, which of course I'd rather not knowingly do or invite into my life. Likewise, the last thing I want is to accidentally knock up an attractive-looking moron or a charming conniver and then be stuck trying to raise a child in a miserable environment. I'm approaching 30 and I've noticed that a lot of women my age seem to be rushing to start families or find a replacement daddy for their kids. This brings me to my next question: For the posters who said they go only a few days or weeks without sex, are you currently in a relationship or where are you finding your sex partners? Are they already there waiting for you when your previous thing ends? Honestly, how's the sex? I tend to have a quality-over-quantity mentality, but this dry spell has me rethinking my approach to sex. Thoughts?
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