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How should I respond to text from girl who flaked a month ago?


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How about you wait a month and then respond:

 

"Been busy"

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She texted last night so it was almost 24 hours. I already texted back "I was hoping we would date, but when you said you lets just be friends, I focused my attention elsewhere."

 

Should I attach any follow up?

 

Nah. Easier to hit on a new girl. This one it seems like you have to recover or something. Screw that :).

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No follow up. She has to follow up. In the meantime, go follow up on some other girl.

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No follow up. She has to follow up. In the meantime, go follow up on some other girl.

 

It's been a night. No response from her at all.

 

I really hate when flaky girls try to reach out after the fact and flake again.

 

What can I say or do that will really get to her? To let her know what's up?

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"I was hoping we would date, but when you said you lets just be friends, I focused my attention elsewhere."

 

It's been a night. No response from her at all.

 

I really hate when flaky girls try to reach out after the fact and flake again.

 

What can I say or do that will really get to her? To let her know what's up?

 

What kind of response were you expecting? I don't see where she has "flaked again". Your initial response did not say anything that shows you would like a reply back. All she knows is that your attention is focussed elsewhere and it's not clear at all whether you still have any interest in her.

 

If you really want to let her know what's up then drop in next time you are in the area to talk with her in person rather than relying on texts.

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You already blew your chance at "getting to her". Anything more that you say now will just make you look bitter and desperate...

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Lmao the name of this girl wouldn't happen to be Sasha would it OP? *rolls eyes*

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It's been a night. No response from her at all.

 

I really hate when flaky girls try to reach out after the fact and flake again.

 

What can I say or do that will really get to her? To let her know what's up?

 

Hun what's up is she has moved on and you should too. I hate it when people get caught up on something that just isn't there. You tried, she wasn't interested. She still not interested! All she wants is an ego boost.

 

Your reply text was sufficient. Let it rest and go flirt with somebody else!

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