fractures Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 I've known this girl since we were seniors in high school (3 years now). Me and her became good friends over the years. We used to spend hours upon hours on AOL just talking about life, bigger things, God, karma, everything. you name it, we covered it. She became one of my best friends. She's absolutely beautiful, quite possibly the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. But even more so, I fell in love with her mind. The way she walked, talked, thought....it was absolutely amazing. anyway, she went with a guy for 2 years. She was happy. The guy was a total d-bag and I hated him, I mean really HATED him, but she was happy. i couldn't complain. A few months ago, she found out he cheated on her. She was crushed. She's the type of girl that can't let anything go. She kept her head up throughout the rest of the summer, but it all came back downhill when she found out he cheated 2 other times while they were dating. I honestly can't even think about what to do. I've tried to help her move on, but I just frustrate her anymore. our friendship has become incredibly unhealthy. All we do is argue. She tells me now that she doesn't believe in love. She stopped caring about me, or anyone for that matter. One night she argued with me over her deleting a girl on facebook just because they got into a misunderstanding. I couldn't take it anymore. I deleted her off of facebook myself and haven't talked to her since thanksgiving.It was a rash thing to do, but I can't keep doing this. She hurts my feelings so much anymore. She's just bitter. She says other things too now like she doesn't believe she's gonna live anymore than a few years. I tried my hardest but I simply can't step away. I love her. I think I might seriously love her as more than a friend, but honestly, that's not even what this is about right now. I just need some guidance. I'm afraid I'm gonna lose her forever. I've literally just been making myself miserable for 2 weeks just thinking about her. God knows what she thinks of me right now, too. I'm so lost. I just want her to be the happy girl I knew and fell in love with.
Capital P Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 **** right off. Im only going to give this the validation of skimming it. No one really wants tsomeone they are in love with to be happy with someone else. NO ONE You are lying to yourself. Unless you are a complete door mat. Both of these things are massively unattractive to a woman, which is why you are getting nowhere with her. Im a single guy, would it make you happy if i come down and **** her? Ill treat her well i promise NO, of course it wouldnt. Stop lying to us and stop lying to yourself. If you want her back, man up. Stop taking second class treatment and show her you are a man, not a pussy Fannying around her is generating zero attraction, change the pattern
strength-abounds Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 **** right off. Im only going to give this the validation of skimming it. No one really wants tsomeone they are in love with to be happy with someone else. NO ONE You are lying to yourself. Unless you are a complete door mat. Both of these things are massively unattractive to a woman, which is why you are getting nowhere with her. Im a single guy, would it make you happy if i come down and **** her? Ill treat her well i promise NO, of course it wouldnt. Stop lying to us and stop lying to yourself. If you want her back, man up. Stop taking second class treatment and show her you are a man, not a pussy Fannying around her is generating zero attraction, change the pattern D**n Cap, I thought I spoke in brutal honest but you take the trophy dude. Fractures, Cap P is right. Man up.
dk.bnz.chi Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 i just read the title and replied. i don't have 2 read the rest. why the f...k do u want her 2 be happy? why the f...k? would u want her 2 b happy when she sucks my d..k being happy about what she's doing ? i just want her 2 be happy. man that's so annoying. do u know what i just want 2? i just want 2 f...k that girl . b happy now 4 that b..h
xeros Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 If she's refusing to take your help and she's making you miserable, then she doesn't deserve your help. I'd just not talk to her for a while, they eventually come around, even if it's just back to being good friends and not a relationship. The bitterness and loss of love for life will pass eventually too, but I can imagine how crushing it must be to discover she's been cheated on.
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