soxfan1032 Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 For me the following She has kids at home She treats her pets like kids, dresses them ect. Her car is always a mess She hates exercise of any kind Her only hobby is facebook She has a history of abuse/abandonment from every man in her past and hasnt had any therapy to deal with it. Her kids have different fathers She tells you your her soulmate within weeks of knowing you She texts you 50 times a day Her Mom has been married 3 or more times widowed doesnt count
OrdealByFire Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 My girlfriend's a couple of those. Lol. But i'm all kindsa effed up myself, so they don't bother me too much.
In The Green Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Her car is always a mess Haha that reminds me I need to clean my car. Dealbreakers hmmmm: Atheist (I can deal with nonreligious, agnostic, etc.) Critical/ judgmental personality Has kids Terrible eating habits/no exercise Hunter Lives & breathes professional sports
b_rouse Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 The no-no's for men (no particular order): Smoking (GROSS!) Doesn't exercise Horrible table manners Atheist Rarely talks to his family Going nowhere in life Party boys
Author soxfan1032 Posted December 5, 2010 Author Posted December 5, 2010 Haha that reminds me I need to clean my car. Dealbreakers hmmmm: Atheist (I can deal with nonreligious, agnostic, etc.) Critical/ judgmental personality Has kids Terrible eating habits/no exercise Hunter Lives & breathes professional sports LOL at your car. And i meant someone who's car is always a mess as in they never clean it.
mathguy Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Very small penis. ANY penis. Children Demands children Loose/Party girl Atheist - As with previous posters, I'm fine with non-religious. Satanist - I'm good with just about any religion, pagan included, but this one would stop me cold. Emotional instability Too confident/sure of herself - The other extreme. Career person - This is not anti-women. Were I gay, I'd say this too. Can't stand career types. Obese - I'm fine with a little extra weight, but this is a turn-off. Also fine with little/no exercise provided she's not this. Anorexic - I want to date a girl, not her skeleton.
Allisha Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 For me the following She has kids at home She treats her pets like kids, dresses them ect. Her car is always a mess She hates exercise of any kind Her only hobby is facebook She has a history of abuse/abandonment from every man in her past and hasnt had any therapy to deal with it. Her kids have different fathers She tells you your her soulmate within weeks of knowing you She texts you 50 times a day Her Mom has been married 3 or more times widowed doesnt count Can understand all of those, except the bold one. Are you being serious?! Each to their own and all that, but what has her mothers' lovelife got to do with anything?! Not every girl is gonna follow in the footsteps of her mother. Infact she may want to break the cycle of divorce by getting it right, no? Fair enough though. Just seems a little odd to me
Woggle Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Can understand all of those, except the bold one. Are you being serious?! Each to their own and all that, but what has her mothers' lovelife got to do with anything?! Not every girl is gonna follow in the footsteps of her mother. Infact she may want to break the cycle of divorce by getting it right, no? Fair enough though. Just seems a little odd to me I understand where you are coming from but it takes a lot of work to overcome what a person was raised with. If a woman has done that work then great but many people struggle with getting past it and I am a prime example. I would run from a female version of me.
hearttobreak Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Jesus freak Kids (went down this road already) Not emotionally stable Not mentally stable Major medical issues Financially irresponsible Divorced multiple times (2+) Severe mood swings Doesn't take care of herself (I.E. hairy lip, waxing, shaving, etc.) Refuses to exercise even when she's gaining weight and she knows it. Not five or ten pounds. Try 15 - 30 pounds.
Woggle Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Some of my dealbreakers if I were single would be. A history of chasing bad boys while rejecting good men. A negative attitude towards commitment in general Hates men or has a negative view of the male gender. Inability to hold herself accountable for past mistakes.
Andy_K Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Satanist - I'm good with just about any religion, pagan included, but this one would stop me cold. I'm curious, have you ever met any real Satanists? Are you basing this on the Holywood stereotype of goat-sacrificing psychopaths? Your typical LaVeyan Satanist is not quite what you might think.
LondonS Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 for me the deal breaker has to be - someone who doesnt have his life together i.e. still living with parents, no stable job, ambition, hobby and over all childish personality. I have recently added one to the list - a Chain Texter... seriously, they should be avoided because IMO, they normally have tendency to juggle a few women at the same time with their texting/sexting skills !!!
loverofloveandstuff Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 - moralistic - fanatically religious - sports obsessed - does no sport at all - shorter than me - too emotional - no ambition - fat and lazy - mumma's boy
denise_xo Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 If I were single, - children/wants children - smoker - lack of independence/ambition/sense of direction in life - not in control over finances - materialistic - parrots religious or political discourses in a way that shows lack of critical thinking skills - wants to be tied to partner by the hip.
kiss_andmakeup Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Not single, but deal-breakers would be... -very religious -very socially conservative (i.e. homophobic, pro-life, etc.) -has children -no job for an extended period of time with no effort to find one -glued to cellphone -poor spelling and grammar (I know this is down to the nitty-gritty, but in this digital age of texting and e-mailing, I couldn't take having a boyfriend that writes "hey do u want to go out tomarow? theirs a grate place down the street want to go theyre?") -looking for a partner to be the "fixer" (i.e. they are unhappy and hate their life unless they are with someone). This is a BIG one. -still involved with exes -hates, dislikes, or mistreats animals -heavy drug use or regular use of any drug at all besides marijuana -heavy drinker -smoker and not trying to quit
9Lives Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Deal breakers -bad breathe -poor hygiene -always broke -cheap -treating cell phone like a private thing -lying -being clingy too early -lack of confidence -dirty home -dirty car -big stomach -ragging teeth -dressing badly -being a cry baby about the past -wanting me to call you daddy when you aint did sht! -wanting sex too soon
hopesndreams Posted December 5, 2010 Posted December 5, 2010 Cheated in a previous relationship and/or helped someone cheat.
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